daughter is taking a way older man

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Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


To you it is better every day, but for all you know she is regretting it. Like your wife, I am 50. I cannot imagine being married to a 69 year old right now!


And men who marry someone their age, and the woman hits the wall so to speak at 40 something, so he regrets it and is dating a 30 year old behind her back.....

There are many reasons intelligent rational women prefer men several older than them, and not just for the biological reasons.


lmao at women "hitting a wall" at 40. Have you seen women in their 40s lately?


Right?! Jessica Alba is more beautiful than ever. The 40s are my favorite decade so far, as I have more money and time to invest in myself now that my kids are older and I've established myself in my career. High-value women remain so for a long time and are less inclined to settle for an older man in our 40s or beyond than we were in our 20s because (1) by our 40s, we have plenty of our own money, and (2) when we were in our 20s, "older" men were in their 30s or maybe 40s, and still attractive, but once we are in our 40s, older men are in their 50s and 60s and look like grandpas who will soon need a caregiver, and no to that.


Congratulation to you. Most women do not look best in their 40’s or have plenty of money. That is just not the reality for most…. And many women do not look like Jessica Alba either.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


To you it is better every day, but for all you know she is regretting it. Like your wife, I am 50. I cannot imagine being married to a 69 year old right now!


And men who marry someone their age, and the woman hits the wall so to speak at 40 something, so he regrets it and is dating a 30 year old behind her back.....

There are many reasons intelligent rational women prefer men several older than them, and not just for the biological reasons.


lmao at women "hitting a wall" at 40. Have you seen women in their 40s lately?


Right?! Jessica Alba is more beautiful than ever. The 40s are my favorite decade so far, as I have more money and time to invest in myself now that my kids are older and I've established myself in my career. High-value women remain so for a long time and are less inclined to settle for an older man in our 40s or beyond than we were in our 20s because (1) by our 40s, we have plenty of our own money, and (2) when we were in our 20s, "older" men were in their 30s or maybe 40s, and still attractive, but once we are in our 40s, older men are in their 50s and 60s and look like grandpas who will soon need a caregiver, and no to that.


Congratulation to you. Most women do not look best in their 40’s or have plenty of money. That is just not the reality for most…. And many women do not look like Jessica Alba either.

Then maybe stop making blanket comments about women after 40 when you clearly don’t know very many - at least none that want anything to do with your snivelling misogynistic garbage views.
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Anonymous wrote:I’d say nothing. Usually it ends. The girl grows up while Peter Pan doesn’t. But for MAGA Trump spokesgirl (her hubby is like 30+ years her age!)


Your life is really bizarre if you think about Trump when talking about sugar daddy’s of some internet stranger.


It isn't bizarre. It is the first thing I thought about
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


To you it is better every day, but for all you know she is regretting it. Like your wife, I am 50. I cannot imagine being married to a 69 year old right now!


And men who marry someone their age, and the woman hits the wall so to speak at 40 something, so he regrets it and is dating a 30 year old behind her back.....

There are many reasons intelligent rational women prefer men several older than them, and not just for the biological reasons.


lmao at women "hitting a wall" at 40. Have you seen women in their 40s lately?


Right?! Jessica Alba is more beautiful than ever. The 40s are my favorite decade so far, as I have more money and time to invest in myself now that my kids are older and I've established myself in my career. High-value women remain so for a long time and are less inclined to settle for an older man in our 40s or beyond than we were in our 20s because (1) by our 40s, we have plenty of our own money, and (2) when we were in our 20s, "older" men were in their 30s or maybe 40s, and still attractive, but once we are in our 40s, older men are in their 50s and 60s and look like grandpas who will soon need a caregiver, and no to that.


Congratulation to you. Most women do not look best in their 40’s or have plenty of money. That is just not the reality for most…. And many women do not look like Jessica Alba either.


That's because most people do not take care of their bodies or health, and overeat, over indulge in drugs (prescriptions too), don't exercise, etc.
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Anonymous wrote:I grew up in South Asian country. Although it was acceptable pre-70's for boomers, I don't know anyone in generation X who married someone with 10+ year age unless they had no other options and wanted marriage and financial security. Most of us married men our own age or within 1-5 year older than us..

Hence divorce rates that were 5% for Greatest Gen/Silent Gen, 10% for Boomers, and now exploded to 50% for Gen X and 65% for millenials/zoomers.

Women are doing it to themselves, marrying men their age or younger is against Nature and a recipe for them to become single before their 50s or even 40s when the men trade them in for a younger model.

Divorce rates were 5% because women couldn’t get a bank account, a loan, a mortgage or in a lot of cases, a JOB. They didn’t stay out of love for their ancient decrepit husband, they stayed because they were trapped. You’re seriously f***ed up to use that as a comparison.


Those are the lies you have been spoonfed. That you believe them shows you are being held in mental bondage today. In this day and age. Really?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I grew up in South Asian country. Although it was acceptable pre-70's for boomers, I don't know anyone in generation X who married someone with 10+ year age unless they had no other options and wanted marriage and financial security. Most of us married men our own age or within 1-5 year older than us..

Hence divorce rates that were 5% for Greatest Gen/Silent Gen, 10% for Boomers, and now exploded to 50% for Gen X and 65% for millenials/zoomers.

Women are doing it to themselves, marrying men their age or younger is against Nature and a recipe for them to become single before their 50s or even 40s when the men trade them in for a younger model.

Divorce rates were 5% because women couldn’t get a bank account, a loan, a mortgage or in a lot of cases, a JOB. They didn’t stay out of love for their ancient decrepit husband, they stayed because they were trapped. You’re seriously f***ed up to use that as a comparison.


Those are the lies you have been spoonfed. That you believe them shows you are being held in mental bondage today. In this day and age. Really?

The lies that our grandmothers told us? You’d mansplain women’s own lived experiences to women on the internet? You really are seriously f***ed.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


I would like to hear how she likes it now. And in 10-15 years…
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


To you it is better every day, but for all you know she is regretting it. Like your wife, I am 50. I cannot imagine being married to a 69 year old right now!


And men who marry someone their age, and the woman hits the wall so to speak at 40 something, so he regrets it and is dating a 30 year old behind her back.....

There are many reasons intelligent rational women prefer men several older than them, and not just for the biological reasons.


lmao at women "hitting a wall" at 40. Have you seen women in their 40s lately?


Right?! Jessica Alba is more beautiful than ever. The 40s are my favorite decade so far, as I have more money and time to invest in myself now that my kids are older and I've established myself in my career. High-value women remain so for a long time and are less inclined to settle for an older man in our 40s or beyond than we were in our 20s because (1) by our 40s, we have plenty of our own money, and (2) when we were in our 20s, "older" men were in their 30s or maybe 40s, and still attractive, but once we are in our 40s, older men are in their 50s and 60s and look like grandpas who will soon need a caregiver, and no to that.


Congratulation to you. Most women do not look best in their 40’s or have plenty of money. That is just not the reality for most…. And many women do not look like Jessica Alba either.


Uh, how about men?

At my reunion I was stunned at how much better the women were aging (than the fat, balding men).
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


I would like to hear how she likes it now. And in 10-15 years…

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Literally no one wants to be f-ing a 70 year old. She’s probably adding extra salt, butter and oil to his food hoping he will drop dead sooner.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I grew up in South Asian country. Although it was acceptable pre-70's for boomers, I don't know anyone in generation X who married someone with 10+ year age unless they had no other options and wanted marriage and financial security. Most of us married men our own age or within 1-5 year older than us..

Hence divorce rates that were 5% for Greatest Gen/Silent Gen, 10% for Boomers, and now exploded to 50% for Gen X and 65% for millenials/zoomers.

Women are doing it to themselves, marrying men their age or younger is against Nature and a recipe for them to become single before their 50s or even 40s when the men trade them in for a younger model.

Divorce rates were 5% because women couldn’t get a bank account, a loan, a mortgage or in a lot of cases, a JOB. They didn’t stay out of love for their ancient decrepit husband, they stayed because they were trapped. You’re seriously f***ed up to use that as a comparison.


Those are the lies you have been spoonfed. That you believe them shows you are being held in mental bondage today. In this day and age. Really?

The lies that our grandmothers told us? You’d mansplain women’s own lived experiences to women on the internet? You really are seriously f***ed.


See how you are? You probably don't even realize it. You are in a cage of your own making, denying reality and history. YDY
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


I would like to hear how she likes it now. And in 10-15 years…


DP but considering she'd be 50ish now, she's probably grateful to have a husband that sticks with her as her looks are fading.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


I would like to hear how she likes it now. And in 10-15 years…


DP but considering she'd be 50ish now, she's probably grateful to have a husband that sticks with her as her looks are fading.


Having your husband “stick” with you because they need a nurse isn’t the win you think it is.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


I would like to hear how she likes it now. And in 10-15 years…

🤢
Literally no one wants to be f-ing a 70 year old. She’s probably adding extra salt, butter and oil to his food hoping he will drop dead sooner.


Age shaming? Would you say the same thing about having sex with an obese person? An ugly person? etc.?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was 45, my wife 26 when we met. Celebrated 24 years together a few weeks ago. Better every day!


I would like to hear how she likes it now. And in 10-15 years…


DP but considering she'd be 50ish now, she's probably grateful to have a husband that sticks with her as her looks are fading.


Having your husband “stick” with you because they need a nurse isn’t the win you think it is.


Anyone who needs a nurse in their 70s lead a very poor life or had a bad accident.

Says what kind of person you are though, that you'd leave a spouse once they get old.
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