DH wants me to be a "hotwife"

[Anonymous]

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Some things should really remain a fantasy. Why can’t you just wear super slutty lingerie and watch his favorite porn genre? Then you can talk absolute filth and focus on different elements, how huge the guy was or whatever and gauge his reaction to find out where his sweet spot is. Then just lean into this with future porn watching and role play. Introduce toys or buy new, wilder ones. It’s really an elegant sufficiency and you have to draw the line. If you give a mouse a cookie..

Im not onto other guys having sex with my wife, but that would actually be fun watching all different forms of porn and having DW comment on it

DP...We tried this once (it was her idea even) but every comment was along the lines of "this is terrible." Oh well, I'll give her points for trying.

Yeah, she's not wrong though! Most pr0n is pathetically low production value, plotless nonsense to begin with, and that's before it's ripped and uploaded to a 'hub' for lazy male consumers. I'm pretty sure you didn't go out of your way to find her something she might've actually found enjoyable (because you'd have to pay for it and... yeah, that's not what happened). What a waste, on your part!

Stupid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a Gen Xer may I just say I have no judgement for whatever folks are into, as long as it’s consensual, it’s all good.

I am also so glad to not be in a millennial or Gen Z marriage navigating spousal issues that are essentially a fetish subreddit come to life.

It’s actually super popular with the 50/60+ crowd 😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Some things should really remain a fantasy. Why can’t you just wear super slutty lingerie and watch his favorite porn genre? Then you can talk absolute filth and focus on different elements, how huge the guy was or whatever and gauge his reaction to find out where his sweet spot is. Then just lean into this with future porn watching and role play. Introduce toys or buy new, wilder ones. It’s really an elegant sufficiency and you have to draw the line. If you give a mouse a cookie..

Im not onto other guys having sex with my wife, but that would actually be fun watching all different forms of porn and having DW comment on it

DP...We tried this once (it was her idea even) but every comment was along the lines of "this is terrible." Oh well, I'll give her points for trying.

Yeah, she's not wrong though! Most pr0n is pathetically low production value, plotless nonsense to begin with, and that's before it's ripped and uploaded to a 'hub' for lazy male consumers. I'm pretty sure you didn't go out of your way to find her something she might've actually found enjoyable (because you'd have to pay for it and... yeah, that's not what happened). What a waste, on your part!

Stupid.

DP. I tried watching porn with my husband a couple of times thinking it would be sexy, but it was awful. I couldn’t quite pinpoint why until you articulated it here. He didn’t put any thought into it and just asked me what I liked. When I said I didn’t know, he started clicking through random videos and asking me what I liked. We would watch something for a few seconds or maybe a minute and then switch to something else. Finally, I was just so grossed out that I told him that I didn’t like any of it and we went to sleep.
I was trying to be open minded, but I wanted him to take the lead.

[Anonymous]

Tell him you are going out dancing, alone or meeting girlfriends. Have him help you get dressed in your sexiest outfit and panties. Tell him when you get home that, no matter what he is going down on you and isn't allowed to ask you any questions about your night until the next morning. Some home without your panties and see if he keeps his end of the deal. That will tell you if he is really into this and can deal with it, or it's all just a fantasy born of watching too much porn. Bonus points if you accidentally butt dial him while you are out and let him hear you talking for a little while, as if in conversation with a man.