DH wants me to be a "hotwife"

[Anonymous]

Too much work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He watches too much porn and it’s ruined his brain.

He should stop watching porn and this weird impulse should diminish.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes and no. We flew to where sex work is legal and hired a professional to help us act out this fantasy.
It was fun and something that we talk about all of the time.

Where is this?

Pretty much anywhere other than the US.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes and no. We flew to where sex work is legal and hired a professional to help us act out this fantasy.
It was fun and something that we talk about all of the time.

Where is this?

Nevada.

[Anonymous]

Perfect. Have some solo nights away and make up some stories to tell him. Win win.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Perfect. Have some solo nights away and make up some stories to tell him. Win win.

lol this is pretty funny

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Perfect. Have some solo nights away and make up some stories to tell him. Win win.

lol this is pretty funny

Sounds ideal. Send yourself to a nice spa, get an awesome massage and brush up your fiction writing skills.

Wish I had thought of this!

[Anonymous]

And when he later gets resentful and demands to have sex with someone else to make things "fair" you'll still have the moral high ground and can reveal the monogamous truth then

[Anonymous]

My advice would be to come up with a scenario that happens during your normal day, come home at night and then tell him you need to tell him something; then relay this super hot story that you’ve come up with. If he’s horrified and sick to his stomach well then this really isn’t for you but if he’s super turned on and you guys have the greatest night ever well then it looks like you found something to play with. The stories don’t have to be based in any sort of fact so you aren’t exposing yourself to any danger or disease nor is your relationship in jeopardy.
Make up some stories, have fun with it there’s no reason you can’t coast on fiction for a few years

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those who don't know, a hotwife is a married woman who has an open relationship with the full consent of her husband while he stays monogamous. We had a few drinks on Saturday and he confessed to me that this was his fetish. He said it would be a huge turn on to know I was out on dates and then hear the stories.

I was a little shocked and didn't know what to think. I've never even thought of something like this, but now that I've slept on it a few days I'm wondering if it might be fun to experiment.

Has anyone gone done this path?

How do you feel about the fact that he consumes a lot of porn with these theme? Because he does.

He’s a wannabe cuck. How pitiful.

Why would you assume that? People have all sorts of kinks and they're not all derived from weird porn addictions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those who don't know, a hotwife is a married woman who has an open relationship with the full consent of her husband while he stays monogamous. We had a few drinks on Saturday and he confessed to me that this was his fetish. He said it would be a huge turn on to know I was out on dates and then hear the stories.

I was a little shocked and didn't know what to think. I've never even thought of something like this, but now that I've slept on it a few days I'm wondering if it might be fun to experiment.

Has anyone gone done this path?

How do you feel about the fact that he consumes a lot of porn with these theme? Because he does.

He’s a wannabe cuck. How pitiful.

Why would you assume that? People have all sorts of kinks and they're not all derived from weird porn addictions.

Because “hotwife” is a porn genre. The nomenclature strongly suggests porn consumption.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those who don't know, a hotwife is a married woman who has an open relationship with the full consent of her husband while he stays monogamous. We had a few drinks on Saturday and he confessed to me that this was his fetish. He said it would be a huge turn on to know I was out on dates and then hear the stories.

I was a little shocked and didn't know what to think. I've never even thought of something like this, but now that I've slept on it a few days I'm wondering if it might be fun to experiment.

Has anyone gone done this path?

How do you feel about the fact that he consumes a lot of porn with these theme? Because he does.

He’s a wannabe cuck. How pitiful.

Why would you assume that? People have all sorts of kinks and they're not all derived from weird porn addictions.

It’s absolutely from porn. Likely started from a very young age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those who don't know, a hotwife is a married woman who has an open relationship with the full consent of her husband while he stays monogamous. We had a few drinks on Saturday and he confessed to me that this was his fetish. He said it would be a huge turn on to know I was out on dates and then hear the stories.

I was a little shocked and didn't know what to think. I've never even thought of something like this, but now that I've slept on it a few days I'm wondering if it might be fun to experiment.

Has anyone gone done this path?

How do you feel about the fact that he consumes a lot of porn with these theme? Because he does.

He’s a wannabe cuck. How pitiful.

Why would you assume that? People have all sorts of kinks and they're not all derived from weird porn addictions.

It’s absolutely from porn. Likely started from a very young age.

You're saying all kinks come from porn? I disagree.

[Anonymous]

DH is just thankful I am hot and I’m his wife. No “hotwife” needed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH is just thankful I am hot and I’m his wife. No “hotwife” needed.

Very helpful! Thanks so much!