+1. But the few occasions there was reading out loud, and I recall everyone had to read a paragraph and go around the room, didn’t bother me. But I did know who couldn’t read well. And vice versa. |
They go in the remedial and lowest level math and reading classes then. Not ESOL, not special ed, not dyslexia, but the slow remedial level and do as best they can there. What do the $$$$ private schools here all day: Teach the child you have. Meet the child where they are. Can’t do that for anyone if there’s a huge skill/ability range of students in the same lesson. |
If a kid has been reading since 3 years old, it more than likely means he/she is on the autism spectrum. |
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I took an IQ test in a professional psychologist’s office (so, one hopes, fairly reliable) that put my overall IQ at 138. I’m surely at least 20-30 points lower than my father who is a fairly well known physics professor with many famous publications. My brutally honest opinion is that 1) the returns to high IQ are unfortunately much lower for women, and 2) even for men, unless you’re making advances at the knowledge frontier of abstract mathematics, you’re best off with an IQ of approx 120 and high energy + high EQ. IQ higher than that simply doesn’t pay off for the individual in terms of more money or higher social status.
Happy to elaborate on my own life path (which is actually pretty good, all things considered!) but that’s the TLDR. |
| Genius is 1% inspiration, 99% perspiration. |
Whoa, can you elaborate? I consider myself pretty smart and my greatest weakness is my stamina - I was underweight until peri and I needed 10 hours of sleep everyday even in my 20s. I have scored a few great jobs with potential but I fudged all of them because of my lack of stamina I burned out after a year or two. |
Agree. Strong books smarts ain’t all that. Those individuals need a lot of scaffolding from their mom, wife, secretary, junior staff. Forever. Need a balance of book smarts/ high IQ and other life skills like EQ, empathy, drive, optimism, social skills, communication skills, etc. |
What do you mean lack of stamina caused you to lose jobs? There are still 14 hours of the day to work and be social and do household admin. What’s happening? Is this a health issue or more like ASD/ need lots of decompression time alone? |
Were you a perfectionist and burned out? Like you couldn’t get stuff done on time or prioritize? Or were you masking so much at work that you burned out? Or was the work places truly toxic and taking advantage of you and others with too much work or problems or stress? |
The good jobs I scored were in hedge funds so the business hour is 11hrs and up to 14 hours (a few times a month), throw in commute and I truly felt so drained when I get home at 80pm. But the men (even the ones with kids) appear fine and survived 20 years going strong. |
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So a non market hours hedge fund research or trading job. Like activist or distressed debt perhaps..
Even in your 20s could you do an 8am to 8pm finance job? |
Nope, did 9-9 for 3 years and became super depressed and left. The athlete colleague became MD after 10 years and I still had 2nd year base salary. |
Love it how you can immediately tell it’s distressed credit 😆 |
Yeah, only project driven work HF types I know! They even have to fly to state courts and talk sometimes, lol. Cyprus, Goldentree. Def not the L/S equity guys who leave at 4:35pm. |
Like the special Olympics and/or every other group to have a sense of belonging. I think it's fine, but people with very high I.Q.s often have other problems. Often social or emotional. |