Sigh... DD and friends are excluding other kids via group chats

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Also your DD is pretty stupid if she doesn’t think eventually one of those girls will turn on her and screen shots will be shared with the people she’s being rude about.

For all you know, there is an even smaller group of 2, that she is not in.

[Anonymous]

I would sit down with her and her father and grandparents in the same room. Ask her to read this thread slowly and in its entirety, while you all sit quietly, nonjudgmentally.

When she is done, let her know you love her. And ask if she would like to accept your collective invitation to fix this. Ask what she thinks she needs to do. Ask what support she needs to do better. If her solution comes up short, help her make it more robust.

I would treat this as a family crisis. Calmly. The gravity of the process should jog her back to the reality of your expectations for her behavior.

[Anonymous]

I am happy you are the type of parent who will address this instead of just ignoring it.