Husband didn’t come home

[Anonymous]

You all are way too naive. If he’s not in a hospital and the police haven’t arrested him, he went home with a coworker. Period. Grown man didn’t get kidnapped.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You all are way too naive. If he’s not in a hospital and the police haven’t arrested him, he went home with a coworker. Period. Grown man didn’t get kidnapped.

DP, not OP, but: You're the naive one. Have you never read any news in the past few decades? Grown men can and sometimes do disappear. OP realizes this and that's why she's frantic. If you think the only options are hospital, jail or a coworker's bed, you are very naive indeed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You all are way too naive. If he’s not in a hospital and the police haven’t arrested him, he went home with a coworker. Period. Grown man didn’t get kidnapped.

See: Chicago. Something like over 20 grown men have disappeared after nights out in the last year and then pop up dead in the Chicago river or Lake Michigan.

[jsteele]

The poster claiming to be the OP and saying her husband was drugged and stayed with a coworker was a troll, posting from an IP address in Belarus. I am fairly certain that poster is a frequent troll here. As for the actual OP, I have no idea whether she is legitimate or a troll.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:The poster claiming to be the OP and saying her husband was drugged and stayed with a coworker was a troll, posting from an IP address in Belarus. I am fairly certain that poster is a frequent troll here. As for the actual OP, I have no idea whether she is legitimate or a troll.

What a bummer. I was fully invested in this one.

I guess there's still a chance the real OP comes back for an update...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You all are way too naive. If he’s not in a hospital and the police haven’t arrested him, he went home with a coworker. Period. Grown man didn’t get kidnapped.

Seriously, who wants a grown man??

[Anonymous]

If I ever get kidnapped and hauled off to Belarus, I guess nobody will believe me when I manage to check DCUM.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:The poster claiming to be the OP and saying her husband was drugged and stayed with a coworker was a troll, posting from an IP address in Belarus. I am fairly certain that poster is a frequent troll here. As for the actual OP, I have no idea whether she is legitimate or a troll.

THANK YOU for responding so quickly when I reported that post. If it's a frequent troll, can you block them? Incredibly cruel and sickening to impersonate someone who is (or at least convincingly appears to be) in crisis.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My husband did this once in 20 years, also after a work dinner. He never drinks and for some reason decided to keep up with his coworkers so after dinner they went to the bar next door until it closed at 2am. He could hardly walk so he go in the back seat of his car and slept it off. I was absolutely panicked. His phone was dead. I had a 3yo and was pregnant with our second. This was pre-uber days though so idk if this would be likely to happen now that it's so easy to get a ride home on demand.

I once fell to the ground leaving a bar and having drank only 3 drinks. I was unable to move and pick up the phone that was ringing. I woke up about 3 hours later. I have no medical conditions and I can drink a lot more than I did that night.
I have no idea what happened that night.
I have had two people disappear like that. One I found at home and completely out of it, but sobered up.

This exact thing has happened to me. I also had 3 drinks over several hours and when I got up and walked out, my mind was totally coherent, but my legs literally did not work. My mind was telling me to do things like call out for help or get up off the ground, but my body would not respond. It was terrifying and has never happened to me other than that one time 15+ years ago.

You both probably had your drinks drugged. It happens.

+1

This happened to my sister. A coworker drugged her drink at a work happy hour, and it was like she was paralyzed (but she said her brain was also a little hazy too). It was terrifying. She left the org, and now avoids places that have a heavy drinking culture.

It’s sort of amazing the different worlds people live in. I have no idea of where or how to buy these drugs. Didn’t stop me being accused of drugging a girls drink (who didn’t go home with) during study abroad 20+ years ago. I have no idea now and definitely no idea then in a foreign country of how to procure these substances. What circles do you have to run in to both have these and bring them to a work HH!? But I agree, the PPs sound like they were drugged.

As an aside, I think the girl, who was visiting a group from her college from another program/country, was drugged by one of the guys in the group she was visiting. But wow, that was uncomfortable - that whole group probably still thinks I’m a rapist.

Anyway, not to derail the thread - I’m just sitting here like everyone else waiting for an update from the OP.

It was a large, big-name trade association. It’s very likely some DCUMs work there.

BIO?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think OP found him by now, and won't be back to tell us the details.

this

I think she found out he was doing something that made her very angry and now she's embarrassed to update us.

Speculating like this isn't helpful to her (if she's even still reading this, which I doubt) and it also is just...empty. We can do "I think this happened" all day long and fill pages with it but it's meaningless. I'll keep checking for any real updates the OP provides but if we start down the purely fictional "What ifhe was X?!" rabbit hole, this thread's a goner.

He was struck by lightening after drinking poisoned algae water and flattened by a boulder. That’s why they can’t find him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You all are way too naive. If he’s not in a hospital and the police haven’t arrested him, he went home with a coworker. Period. Grown man didn’t get kidnapped.

Seriously, who wants a grown man??

You're as naive as the PP to whom you're responding. Neither of you seems to have any street smarts. No one might want to kidnap a grown man, but there are people who would want his car, his wallet, his PIN number for the bank card, his phone, and he would only be an easily threatened, then easily removed, obstacle between them and those things.

[Anonymous]

So I guess we are back to waiting for the OP to resurface.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I guess we are back to waiting for the OP to resurface.

I think the troll is under the bridge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I guess we are back to waiting for the OP to resurface.

I doubt she'll be back regardless of the outcome. She posted because she was worried to death. (I know I would be.) If she found out he was hurt or injured, then she is too busy to post. If she found out he cheated, then she is too despondent to post. If she was a troll, then she would have posted back already with some cockamamie tale about aliens or whatever to get attention. I'm suspect it's real and I hope all is well.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You all are way too naive. If he’s not in a hospital and the police haven’t arrested him, he went home with a coworker. Period. Grown man didn’t get kidnapped.

Seriously, who wants a grown man??

You're as naive as the PP to whom you're responding. Neither of you seems to have any street smarts. No one might want to kidnap a grown man, but there are people who would want his car, his wallet, his PIN number for the bank card, his phone, and he would only be an easily threatened, then easily removed, obstacle between them and those things.

You are easily excited, aren’t you?