| Stop making your children lie to their dad. |
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OP- IMO a father, who has a one bedroom apartment and relegates 90% of the parenting ( outside of deployment or similar circumstances) to the mother is not a great father. I can certainly understand that finances may prohibit him from doing more, but that doesn’t sound like the case. Hard to tell with what is written.
I will be completely honest. I would do what is best for DC. If I felt at the school was best for them and ex would blow that up, I may tell them to lie. |
| Stop turning your children into liars. If you encourage them to lie to their dad they will also lie to you because they know honesty is not important. |