Open Marriage with kids

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you’re in an open marriage, do your kids know?

Why would someone EVER tell your kids this!!!???

People who don't think it's wrong and don't want to lie to their kids about who they're spending time with.

There’s a difference between no divulging and lying in this case, but hope they don’t care if the whole class knows.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

What do you think would happen to your kid on a sleepover there?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

What do you think would happen to your kid on a sleepover there?

The pearl clutching is strong here. News flash: nobody cares about your sex life. We don’t care who you are fking or who you aren’t or what gender preference you might secretly have. We genuinely do not care!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

What do you think would happen to your kid on a sleepover there?

The pearl clutching is strong here. News flash: nobody cares about your sex life. We don’t care who you are fking or who you aren’t or what gender preference you might secretly have. We genuinely do not care!

I don’t let me kid go over to two daddy houses for sleepover, so I do care if I am being honest.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

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A big risk factor for sexual abuse is having lots of strange men around. Mom's boyfriend is often the culprit. I wouldn't be comfortable having my children hang out with the swingers because I don't know who else might be there, who might have keys to the house, if the parents will go out with their lovers, if the parents will be distracted drinking and sexting with lovers, etc.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

+1

A big risk factor for sexual abuse is having lots of strange men around. Mom's boyfriend is often the culprit. I wouldn't be comfortable having my children hang out with the swingers because I don't know who else might be there, who might have keys to the house, if the parents will go out with their lovers, if the parents will be distracted drinking and sexting with lovers, etc.

I agree, the safety of children is paramount. If parents have multiple partners, they are putting those relationships before their own family and children. Someone else’s child is even lower on list. They probably have kids over to entertain their kids while dad is at the hotel with Larla- mom is on her phone, sexting with Chad- who is on his way over with wine.

Meanwhile the kids are on their own. That’s a big no from me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

+1

A big risk factor for sexual abuse is having lots of strange men around. Mom's boyfriend is often the culprit. I wouldn't be comfortable having my children hang out with the swingers because I don't know who else might be there, who might have keys to the house, if the parents will go out with their lovers, if the parents will be distracted drinking and sexting with lovers, etc.

I agree, the safety of children is paramount. If parents have multiple partners, they are putting those relationships before their own family and children. Someone else’s child is even lower on list. They probably have kids over to entertain their kids while dad is at the hotel with Larla- mom is on her phone, sexting with Chad- who is on his way over with wine.

Meanwhile the kids are on their own. That’s a big no from me.

You are spinning a very specific and weird fantasy here.

I don't have anyone over when my kids are home. And in terms of what I ignore my kids for, it's work and dcum, just like everyone else.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

What do you think would happen to your kid on a sleepover there?

Anything. If you are that sick, anything is possible behind closed door.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

What do you think would happen to your kid on a sleepover there?

Anything. If you are that sick, anything is possible behind closed door.

Get a grip. There’s nothing “sick” about enjoying sex between consenting adults.

[Anonymous]

Even adults are creeped out by polyamory. They don’t want to be around it, and swingers/polyamorous/open marriage people are on par with vegans and crossfitters regarding proselytizing people to bring them into their lifestyle.

The video is extremely funny, accurate, and disturbing.

Do whatever you want, but keep your intimate life private and stop trying to proselytize. If people want to have an open marriage or be poly or swing, they are adults. They can figure it out.

[Anonymous]

Who is proselytizing in this thread?

OP asked a question. Some people answered. Those people were attacked, and 'conversations' followed.

In another thread, a poly person started an AMA and was asked many questions.

So don't ask questions you don't want answers to. And don't click on threads that will make you feel 'ick'.

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Anonymous wrote:I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day.

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids?

Because your poor kids might not have any friends

Explain

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid? No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces.

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers.

What do you think would happen to your kid on a sleepover there?

Anything. If you are that sick, anything is possible behind closed door.

Get a grip. There’s nothing “sick” about enjoying sex between consenting adults.

Isn't like a crazy person saying i am not crazy?

[Anonymous]

So everyone who steps out of their marriage is 'sick' and has it in them to harm children.

Got it.

Glad I know that now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So everyone who steps out of their marriage is 'sick' and has it in them to harm children.

Got it.

Glad I know that now.

?? News to you??