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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd be careful and avoid telling a child. We learned of a couple's open marriage from our child whose friend had told her about her parents having boyfriends and girlfriends at school. She announced it in class so the entire grade found out in a day. [/quote]

If you are not hiding it from the world, why hide it from the kids? [/quote]

Because your poor kids might not have any friends[/quote]

Explain[/quote]

?? Not sure if you are playing dumb or actually dumb. Once your kid finds out, his friends will find out. Once they find out, their parents will find out... [b]Do you think friends' parents will let their kids come near your kid?[/b] No way in hell that's going to happen. I am not trying to stop you. YOu can go around screw anyone or anything you want to screw but don't pretend this won't affect your kids.  [/quote]

You’re dumb if you think this applies to middle and high schoolers, or that all parents of younger kids care about friends’ parents having side pieces. [/quote]

One of my child’s friend’s parents has a side piece. The other parent is aware. I trying pretty hard not to let my kid go over there for sleepovers. [/quote]

A big risk factor for sexual abuse is having lots of strange men around. Mom's boyfriend is often the culprit. I wouldn't be comfortable having my children hang out with the swingers because I don't know who else might be there, who might have keys to the house, if the parents will go out with their lovers, if the parents will be distracted drinking and sexting with lovers, etc. [/quote]

I agree, the safety of children is paramount. If parents have multiple partners, they are putting those relationships before their own family and children. Someone else’s child is even lower on list. They probably have kids over to entertain their kids while dad is at the hotel with Larla- mom is on her phone, sexting with Chad- who is on his way over with wine.

Meanwhile the kids are on their own. That’s a big no from me.[/quote]

You are spinning a very specific and weird fantasy here.

I don't have anyone over when my kids are home. And in terms of what I ignore my kids for, it's work and dcum, just like everyone else. [/quote]

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