Kids who work but never move on/out

[Anonymous]

I'm from a culture where its expected but moving out is just as acceptable. However, kids are always welcome home if they need to, other war around, not so much now but vacationing at adult children's homes and vice versa is still a norm.

[Anonymous]

*other way

[Anonymous]

An acquaintance remarried someone who, a year into their marriage, wanted to move in one of his adult sons who had graduated college and had a high paying job, but wanted to live in dad's nice house with no responsibilities rather than set up an apartment. Adult son is closer to her age than her DH. It was a clash of cultures and expectations. She chalked the whole thing up to naivety and bad decision making and moved out. He begged her to stay; they worked it out, bought a new house together, and now have little kids. But anyway, dating or marrying someone with older kids can be at least as challenging as dating or marrying someone with younger kids due to different expectations about living arrangements.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:our son (28) is like that. educated, employed, and too comfortable. we don't push or pull and he is not showing any signs of wanting to move out. he is saving good money though. we don't charge expenses/rent either

PP what do you mean by this?