Feminism is a scam- I want to be a trophy wife!

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I hate working. I’m exhausted all the time and I don’t even have time to work out or even cry.

This is such a scam!!


Feminism doesn't ask you to work outside, it only wants you to have the opportunity to work if you want to. Your finances or ambition force you to work. To be fair, some feel forced to work even if they don't need or want to because their is capitalism based social stigma against SAHPs. Feminism acknowledges and values SAHP's contributions.



Meh. Feminism is a lot of different things to a lot of different people. In its basic form, it's not much more than just securing equal rights and equal opportunities for women. But some subset of feminists will absolutely make a woman feel like she's betraying feminism if she wants to stay at home, take care of the kids, and run the household.
Anonymous
Well I don't want to be my husband's property.
I want to own my own property independent of a man.

I want the right to vote.


I also like my job and thanks to feminism I'm allowed to work in the field I do and be fairly compensated.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I hate working. I’m exhausted all the time and I don’t even have time to work out or even cry.

This is such a scam!!



The key is to have a rich father. I never have to get married or work. I can just have boyfriends and live off my trust.


If I had a dime for the number of people who thought that and something happened to the money…
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I hate working. I’m exhausted all the time and I don’t even have time to work out or even cry.

This is such a scam!!


You still have to work. You just do it on your back and your knees.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I hate working. I’m exhausted all the time and I don’t even have time to work out or even cry.

This is such a scam!!


Feminism doesn't ask you to work outside, it only wants you to have the opportunity to work if you want to. Your finances or ambition force you to work. To be fair, some feel forced to work even if they don't need or want to because their is capitalism based social stigma against SAHPs. Feminism acknowledges and values SAHP's contributions.



Meh. Feminism is a lot of different things to a lot of different people. In its basic form, it's not much more than just securing equal rights and equal opportunities for women. But some subset of feminists will absolutely make a woman feel like she's betraying feminism if she wants to stay at home, take care of the kids, and run the household.


True some would but real feminism isn't about berating other women's right to chose how to live her life.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:More than 50% of business bigwigs have a stay at home wife or a wife with just a show off job. Behind most successful men are women who deserve more credit than they get.



Okay. This is just BS to make women feel important. Would you ever say the same thing about about a woman? Behind most successful women are men who deserve more credit?


Absolutely. Men who make sacrifices to support ambitions of their high achiever wives, undoubtedly deserve credit.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Everyone has to carry their own weight in this world op. Trying to get out of that only leads to dependency and misery. Selling sex is a very tough job. Just ask any prostitute.


Sex is mutual fun for a healthy and loving married couple, not one sided activity. If a SAHP is taking care of kids, home and other life tasks so ambitious spouse can climb ladder, its co-dependency not dependecy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Everyone has to carry their own weight in this world op. Trying to get out of that only leads to dependency and misery. Selling sex is a very tough job. Just ask any prostitute.


Everyone carries their weight, otherwise there won't be a need for nannies, cooks, babysitters, tutors, drivers, house cleaners, housekeepers, butlers, private assistants and house managers.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Everyone has to carry their own weight in this world op. Trying to get out of that only leads to dependency and misery. Selling sex is a very tough job. Just ask any prostitute.


Sex is mutual fun for a healthy and loving married couple, not one sided activity. If a SAHP is taking care of kids, home and other life tasks so ambitious spouse can climb ladder, its co-dependency not dependecy.

+1. I can’t believe the misogyny in this thread reducing the role of women who stay at home to rear families to prostitutes. What an utterly abhorrent view of women’s love, labors, and talents.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:More than 50% of business bigwigs have a stay at home wife or a wife with just a show off job. Behind most successful men are women who deserve more credit than they get.



And what do the other 50% do?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Well I don't want to be my husband's property.
I want to own my own property independent of a man.

I want the right to vote.


I also like my job and thanks to feminism I'm allowed to work in the field I do and be fairly compensated.


Most states are common property states so any property acquired by a couple while married, is owned jointly.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Well I don't want to be my husband's property.
I want to own my own property independent of a man.

I want the right to vote.


I also like my job and thanks to feminism I'm allowed to work in the field I do and be fairly compensated.


Most states are common property states so any property acquired by a couple while married, is owned jointly.


Thanks to feminism.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Everyone has to carry their own weight in this world op. Trying to get out of that only leads to dependency and misery. Selling sex is a very tough job. Just ask any prostitute.


Sex is mutual fun for a healthy and loving married couple, not one sided activity. If a SAHP is taking care of kids, home and other life tasks so ambitious spouse can climb ladder, its co-dependency not dependecy.

+1. I can’t believe the misogyny in this thread reducing the role of women who stay at home to rear families to prostitutes. What an utterly abhorrent view of women’s love, labors, and talents.


The OP said she was to be a "trophy wife." That's very different than a SAHM. Trophy wife means a rich guy married you because you're hot, and he wants to show you off and bang you.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:More than 50% of business bigwigs have a stay at home wife or a wife with just a show off job. Behind most successful men are women who deserve more credit than they get.



And what do the other 50% do?


Divorce or fight every day on who'll do what or delegate parenting to hired help.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Everyone has to carry their own weight in this world op. Trying to get out of that only leads to dependency and misery. Selling sex is a very tough job. Just ask any prostitute.


Sex is mutual fun for a healthy and loving married couple, not one sided activity. If a SAHP is taking care of kids, home and other life tasks so ambitious spouse can climb ladder, its co-dependency not dependecy.

+1. I can’t believe the misogyny in this thread reducing the role of women who stay at home to rear families to prostitutes. What an utterly abhorrent view of women’s love, labors, and talents.


The OP said she was to be a "trophy wife." That's very different than a SAHM. Trophy wife means a rich guy married you because you're hot, and he wants to show you off and bang you.

I see your point, Lol.
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