how common is pregnancy doing Freshman year of college?

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Anonymous wrote:Smart

Their bodies will snap back in no time and they’ll have lots of energy to be involved in their kids’ lives through most of it

Except they will be single moms unless they give the babies up for adoption. College boys aren't known to step up too often, and the girls have now ruined most of their dating chances with educated guys by having a child so young.

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Anonymous wrote:Smart

Their bodies will snap back in no time and they’ll have lots of energy to be involved in their kids’ lives through most of it

Ha! That’s rich and creamy, indeed. Every mother’s dream for her son: a single mother. Granted girls from mc or umc families will fare better than their poorer sisters- but that’s cold comfort.

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Anonymous wrote:They've got to be pretty dumb, in this day and age, to get pregnant. Imo. given birth control options. And yes BC can (so, so rarely) fail, so that is why you use more than one method.

Most effective- an aspirin held firmly between the knees.

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Anonymous wrote:You can thank legalized abortion and contraceptive availability for the rarity. All that is at risk right now with the Republicans. Sad to know there will be many young women and their families along with young men and their families faced with the consequences of unwanted pregnancies.

Do Republicans impregnate every young woman?

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"how common is pregnancy doing Freshman year of college?"

OP, you wrote 'doing' twice- in the title and in the text. Either you have a lisp or a weird typo.

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Anonymous wrote:My DH got his girlfriend pregnant their first semester of college. He 17, she 18. Of course they did not have it. Both now with advanced degrees, both college professors, opposite sides of the country. He told me this on our second date.

I would have taken that to my grave, whether I were the male or female in the story. Who needs to know what happened so young? Political litmus test?

He (we) also told our kids, when we had a more mature sex-ed talk as a family.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Smart

Their bodies will snap back in no time and they’ll have lots of energy to be involved in their kids’ lives through most of it

Except they will be single moms unless they give the babies up for adoption. College boys aren't known to step up too often, and the girls have now ruined most of their dating chances with educated guys by having a child so young.

eh - it’s 2023, the “single mom” penalty is greatly diminished if you are pretty, in shape, educated, under 30 and come from a well off family.

The “mom” penalty in dating isn’t due to being a mom in 2023 given the demographics of the country — it’s because of other things

In a weird way — the people who would benefit most from being young moms would be umc women who get into t30s/40s —

They show the signal of intelligence but also have massive familial support.

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I don’t know of anyone that had a baby in college. I did hear of a few abortions, but not within my close friend group.

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Small conservative Christian college with under 2000 students. My freshman year (2000) 4 girls (sophomores and juniors) got pregnant. All 4 of the guys were in the ministry program. All got married before the baby came. Last I heard, two of the couples were still together and both the guys were still pastors.

When you’re that kind of Christian you don’t take birth control or carry condoms because that means you’re PLANNING to sin. If it was just “getting caught up in the moment” that is less bad. (I do not think this but it was the way a lot of us thought then.)

There may have been more who aborted despite religious beliefs, but I wouldn’t have known.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Smart

Their bodies will snap back in no time and they’ll have lots of energy to be involved in their kids’ lives through most of it

Except they will be single moms unless they give the babies up for adoption. College boys aren't known to step up too often, and the girls have now ruined most of their dating chances with educated guys by having a child so young.

eh - it’s 2023, the “single mom” penalty is greatly diminished if you are pretty, in shape, educated, under 30 and come from a well off family.

The “mom” penalty in dating isn’t due to being a mom in 2023 given the demographics of the country — it’s because of other things

In a weird way — the people who would benefit most from being young moms would be umc women who get into t30s/40s —

They show the signal of intelligence but also have massive familial support.

They don't tend to retain familial support after they get pregnant after passing out at a frat party.

The one girl I know who kept her baby, with her parents support, had her ex boyfriend who wanted her to abort try to kill the whole family, including her, her parents and his baby. It was a mess. She ended up with gray hair before she was 22. Some guys really don't want to pay child support. Yes, he did go to prison.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:how common is pregnancy doing Freshman year of college?
2 of my DD friends that went to a 4 year school will be having a baby by the end of the year... How common is it?

Uncommon and rare in my DD's group of friends. I have not even heard of one case. Come to think of it, I have not even heard of one person in their HS or college having a baby or being pregnant! Who is your DD hanging out with? What SES, what race, what religion, what state?

Girl. Your head is so far in the sand! Do you think YOU would know?

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My DD got pregnant her freshman year of college. She had an abortion.

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Anonymous wrote:My DD got pregnant her freshman year of college. She had an abortion.

Did she go to school far away from home? Did you help her find a provider?

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I know of a a couple that got pregnant in high school, and even middle school but not college/university. The university I went to was also in the same area.

The only girls that I knew that got pregnant while I was in college weren’t in college themselves.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DD got pregnant her freshman year of college. She had an abortion.

Did she go to school far away from home? Did you help her find a provider?

Yes and yes. She flew home to the DMV the day after she found out for the medical abortion (the pills, not the surgical procedure).