Anonymous wrote:I can’t imagine dating, let alone marrying, an unattractive man. So no.
Same. Why would you have married someone you did not find attractive OP? My DH is very attractive as is my only child. I would have stayed single if I had not found an attractive spouse.
How long have you been married? Looks change over time. My DH got fat. It sucks. My desire is gone.
+1. And mine wasn’t fat at all when we met, dated, and married. I think he’d look so much better if he lost even 30 of the pounds he gained.
Our kids are gorgeous (in my obviously biased Mom opinion!), so I don’t share all of OP’s issues.