Inconsiderate visiting family

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Isn't it normal to pick someone up at the airport? I couldn't imagine not offering.

Same here, but different families have different dynamics. It sounds like the OP comes from a different family experience/pattern and her SIL comes from one like yours and mine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My parents live far from an airport and when we fly in late, they drive in earlier in the day and leave a car for us at the airport. It’s great. They don’t have to stay up late and we don’t have to spend a ton of extra money to rent a car (no Ubers or taxis where they are).

If you husband doesn’t want to stay up late, could you all leave a car for them at the airport?

How do you get into the car that is left for you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update. I texted my SIL today first with a pretext about sleeping arrangements and then said “I see you’re getting in late. It would be best if you took a taxi or Uber”. She wrote back “Perfect see you soon”. Now we’ll see how this plays out …..

God this is exhausting. She said it's fine. Let it go, it's fine. Leave a freaking mint on her pillow so she has NO reason to say you're awkward or mean and just go to bed.

Let you DH sleep in if you're worried he'd exhausted. Surely he can go to bed at 1am sleep till 8 or 9am and be ok on Thanksgiving?

How far do you live from DCA? If you live in DC or close in Fairfax County or MoCo or Arlington or Alexandria I have no understanding of where you're coming from. Do you have very small kids? Even if so, put the visitors in charge of them tomorrow -- send them out to get donuts, turn on the TV. You're gonna be fine.