Scorned woman strikes again - Yoga teacher murders the 'other' woman in Austin

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm guessing the shooter was seething with rage because she's in her 30s and the cheater immature boyfriend has been leading her on for years -- no marriage, no kids while her fertility wanes.

OMG, the poster obsessed with fertility is back.

I don't know what you're referring to. But her staring down 35, lack of ring/marriage, very few viable eggs left, and still childless most certainly played a part in her allegedly committing this heinous act. She knows she just flushed her fertility prime down the toilet on this man-child who was clearly angling to leave her for a younger woman (in her own fertility prime). You want to know the likely future 12-18 months from now had she done nothing and let this relationship end (as it was headed)? She's 35 or 36, single, childless, and barren. The ex-bf marries the Dartmouth alum who immediately gets pregnant.

Brunch grandma, do you know that there are women in this world who are childfree by choice? They don't want kids. At all.

Oh, she does. She refers to them as "genetic dead-ends."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm guessing the shooter was seething with rage because she's in her 30s and the cheater immature boyfriend has been leading her on for years -- no marriage, no kids while her fertility wanes.

OMG, the poster obsessed with fertility is back.

Can The Evils of Brunch be far behind?

[Anonymous]

Dude bought her the gun. It was almost like he played her to do his dirty work for him... Did Mo friendzone him for better-looking guys?

[Anonymous]

I’ve got to agree with Fertility Grandma/Brunch Witch. She snapped because this guy was HER LIFE PLAN and couldn’t envision a content life after him.

She killed the young woman, who is basically living an amazing life - Ivy League, woman engineer, champion sponsored athlete, great career & family.

The guy definitely wanted to be with the younger woman. The jilted girlfriend was not going to let him have his Happy Ending

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dude bought her the gun. It was almost like he played her to do his dirty work for him... Did Mo friendzone him for better-looking guys?

Nah, that’s just #CoupleGoals in Texas

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve got to agree with Fertility Grandma/Brunch Witch. She snapped because this guy was HER LIFE PLAN and couldn’t envision a content life after him.

She killed the young woman, who is basically living an amazing life - Ivy League, woman engineer, champion sponsored athlete, great career & family.

The guy definitely wanted to be with the younger woman. The jilted girlfriend was not going to let him have his Happy Ending

Happy ending? Who wants to be with this two-timing, gun-purchasing, lying slimy guy? I would be telling my daughter to shake the dust off her feet and be thankful she found out now, and not after two kids and a big mortgage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve got to agree with Fertility Grandma/Brunch Witch. She snapped because this guy was HER LIFE PLAN and couldn’t envision a content life after him.

She killed the young woman, who is basically living an amazing life - Ivy League, woman engineer, champion sponsored athlete, great career & family.

The guy definitely wanted to be with the younger woman. The jilted girlfriend was not going to let him have his Happy Ending

And at age 35, the biological clock was basically done ticking. She knew it and we all know it as we all had girlfriends who were single and childless in their mid 30s and started to get a bit nuts. But of course a handful on disinfo feminists on dcum will pretend that's not real life. It's so easy to meet single men in your mid 30s. It's so easy to get pregnant in your mid 30s. Lies on lies on lies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ve got to agree with Fertility Grandma/Brunch Witch. She snapped because this guy was HER LIFE PLAN and couldn’t envision a content life after him.

She killed the young woman, who is basically living an amazing life - Ivy League, woman engineer, champion sponsored athlete, great career & family.

The guy definitely wanted to be with the younger woman. The jilted girlfriend was not going to let him have his Happy Ending

And at age 35, the biological clock was basically done ticking. She knew it and we all know it as we all had girlfriends who were single and childless in their mid 30s and started to get a bit nuts. But of course a handful on disinfo feminists on dcum will pretend that's not real life. It's so easy to meet single men in your mid 30s. It's so easy to get pregnant in your mid-30s. Lies on lies on lies.

The people I know who were single past 35 are much better people than you. Had she been single, she would have adopted or used a donor. This yoga instructor is drop-dead gorgeous, even more unbelievably so for 35 and could easily get another man had she been single. Instead, this man lied, played her, and wouldn't let her go. Being a fugitive isn't going to get her a life with him or a ring or baby, but it will prevent a manipulator and life-ruiner from the thing he wants the most.

[Anonymous]

I don’t care how “hot” a 35 yo yoga instructor is, she’s at the end of fertility and her looks are about to hit a wall. Her mate was clearly courting the more nubile 25 yo, who has 5 to 10 years of fertility left. That is real life, not whatever fake garbage you read on your neo feminist blogs.

[Anonymous]

The boyfriend was 2 timing. He was living with his girlfriend but went out a date. He took the other girl to a swimming pool and out to dinner.

The other girl should have stayed in her lane.

[Anonymous]

Ladies, no man is worth this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, no man is worth this.

The true moral of this tale.

[Anonymous]

Obviously this is terrible and please don't misconstrue anything I'm about to write as a defense of what this woman did. She murdered someone, it's terrible, I feel awful for the victim and her family. No one deserves that.

I used to see stuff like this and view it with detachment, like "oh that person must just be a bad person, I can't relate, why are people so terrible." But I went through something in the last few years (not a cheating partner, thankfully, something totally different) and experienced what I can only describe as social humiliation. It was crushing and really messed me up. I feel like I'd been deprived of my humanity, unfairly. I got very paranoid for a time and felt like everyone I knew was laughing at me and pitying me behind my back. I wound up quitting my job for a time, doing intensive therapy, and making several other big changes, and eventually got through it. It was the hardest thing I've ever done.

But now I understand how this stuff happens. I didn't kill anyone when this happened to me and I really don't think I would (I'm a pacifist and abhor guns), but now I get how it happens. When you feel humiliated in this way, it feels like there is nothing left to lose. If you are convinced that everyone hates you anyway, especially if it feels like they hate you for things that are not your fault and out of your control, it's like, well what's left? It's like your connection to society is severed. It's terrifying.

I think PPs are right that her anger stemmed from feeling like she was losing her plan for her future, and feeling this woman stole it from her. But I think the thing that made her willing to kill this woman, instead of just yelling at her spreading nasty rumors or something, was the sense of humiliation. It was being lied to and then finding out, feeling like everyone was in on a joke that she was the butt of. Or at least that's what I think. When I was going through this, I had violent thoughts I can't believe I had. Thoughts that scared me.

I've since vowed that if anyone I know ever goes through there, to show up and let them know they are loved and valued, that I'm not laughing at them. To remind them they are still human and they are still connected to someone. I wish this woman had had something like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Obviously this is terrible and please don't misconstrue anything I'm about to write as a defense of what this woman did. She murdered someone, it's terrible, I feel awful for the victim and her family. No one deserves that.

I used to see stuff like this and view it with detachment, like "oh that person must just be a bad person, I can't relate, why are people so terrible." But I went through something in the last few years (not a cheating partner, thankfully, something totally different) and experienced what I can only describe as social humiliation. It was crushing and really messed me up. I feel like I'd been deprived of my humanity, unfairly. I got very paranoid for a time and felt like everyone I knew was laughing at me and pitying me behind my back. I wound up quitting my job for a time, doing intensive therapy, and making several other big changes, and eventually got through it. It was the hardest thing I've ever done.

But now I understand how this stuff happens. I didn't kill anyone when this happened to me and I really don't think I would (I'm a pacifist and abhor guns), but now I get how it happens. When you feel humiliated in this way, it feels like there is nothing left to lose. If you are convinced that everyone hates you anyway, especially if it feels like they hate you for things that are not your fault and out of your control, it's like, well what's left? It's like your connection to society is severed. It's terrifying.

I think PPs are right that her anger stemmed from feeling like she was losing her plan for her future, and feeling this woman stole it from her. But I think the thing that made her willing to kill this woman, instead of just yelling at her spreading nasty rumors or something, was the sense of humiliation. It was being lied to and then finding out, feeling like everyone was in on a joke that she was the butt of. Or at least that's what I think. When I was going through this, I had violent thoughts I can't believe I had. Thoughts that scared me.

I've since vowed that if anyone I know ever goes through there, to show up and let them know they are loved and valued, that I'm not laughing at them. To remind them they are still human and they are still connected to someone. I wish this woman had had something like that.

Gently, you should seek therapy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Obviously this is terrible and please don't misconstrue anything I'm about to write as a defense of what this woman did. She murdered someone, it's terrible, I feel awful for the victim and her family. No one deserves that.

I used to see stuff like this and view it with detachment, like "oh that person must just be a bad person, I can't relate, why are people so terrible." But I went through something in the last few years (not a cheating partner, thankfully, something totally different) and experienced what I can only describe as social humiliation. It was crushing and really messed me up. I feel like I'd been deprived of my humanity, unfairly. I got very paranoid for a time and felt like everyone I knew was laughing at me and pitying me behind my back. I wound up quitting my job for a time, doing intensive therapy, and making several other big changes, and eventually got through it. It was the hardest thing I've ever done.

But now I understand how this stuff happens. I didn't kill anyone when this happened to me and I really don't think I would (I'm a pacifist and abhor guns), but now I get how it happens. When you feel humiliated in this way, it feels like there is nothing left to lose. If you are convinced that everyone hates you anyway, especially if it feels like they hate you for things that are not your fault and out of your control, it's like, well what's left? It's like your connection to society is severed. It's terrifying.

I think PPs are right that her anger stemmed from feeling like she was losing her plan for her future, and feeling this woman stole it from her. But I think the thing that made her willing to kill this woman, instead of just yelling at her spreading nasty rumors or something, was the sense of humiliation. It was being lied to and then finding out, feeling like everyone was in on a joke that she was the butt of. Or at least that's what I think. When I was going through this, I had violent thoughts I can't believe I had. Thoughts that scared me.

I've since vowed that if anyone I know ever goes through there, to show up and let them know they are loved and valued, that I'm not laughing at them. To remind them they are still human and they are still connected to someone. I wish this woman had had something like that.

The other thing is that both the boyfriend and the deceased were top competitors in their sport. Them coming together almost seems like star-crossed fate especially if you read the full arrest record and see the scorned woman was complaining to friends that her boyfriend didn't want her on his cycling runs because she was slow and not as good as the competitor - he told this to her face.

She must have felt rejected personally and in her 'hobby' profession while they were seen as stars who could do no wrong.

That said she's CUCKCOO.

- DP