Do you have an ex living rent free in your head?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:^^pp that’s what helped me evict them: time and the realization at how disgusting/pathetic they were/are. I would never do what they did to an enemy, let alone a spouse. I can’t lie. And the extent they did was just unreal.


Frankly, I laugh if “it” ever pops in my head. I think how desperate and pathetic you are to be 50 years old and sucking off men you met on the Internet in the guest room of the family home. It doesn’t get much lower than that.


Wait, did that actually happen to you? How did you find out and what did you do about it? I would be super disgusted if it were my spouse, but the fact that it was in family home where kids could be exposed would be absolute deal breaker.


She carried out both affairs in our family home. One of the dude’s wives found out.


Sorry that happened to you. Sounds like perhaps she was in some kind of mid life crisis. Too bad she didn’t just buy a car or something. Instead she self destructed and took her family down with her.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^^pp that’s what helped me evict them: time and the realization at how disgusting/pathetic they were/are. I would never do what they did to an enemy, let alone a spouse. I can’t lie. And the extent they did was just unreal.


Frankly, I laugh if “it” ever pops in my head. I think how desperate and pathetic you are to be 50 years old and sucking off men you met on the Internet in the guest room of the family home. It doesn’t get much lower than that.


Wait, did that actually happen to you? How did you find out and what did you do about it? I would be super disgusted if it were my spouse, but the fact that it was in family home where kids could be exposed would be absolute deal breaker.


She carried out both affairs in our family home. One of the dude’s wives found out.


Sorry that happened to you. Sounds like perhaps she was in some kind of mid life crisis. Too bad she didn’t just buy a car or something. Instead she self destructed and took her family down with her.


One affair? Maybe. More than one? That’s more than a midlife crisis. In their home speaks to mental illness/borderline personality disorder. Risking everything in the family home is plain crazy.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^^pp that’s what helped me evict them: time and the realization at how disgusting/pathetic they were/are. I would never do what they did to an enemy, let alone a spouse. I can’t lie. And the extent they did was just unreal.


Frankly, I laugh if “it” ever pops in my head. I think how desperate and pathetic you are to be 50 years old and sucking off men you met on the Internet in the guest room of the family home. It doesn’t get much lower than that.


Wait, did that actually happen to you? How did you find out and what did you do about it? I would be super disgusted if it were my spouse, but the fact that it was in family home where kids could be exposed would be absolute deal breaker.


She carried out both affairs in our family home. One of the dude’s wives found out.


Sorry that happened to you. Sounds like perhaps she was in some kind of mid life crisis. Too bad she didn’t just buy a car or something. Instead she self destructed and took her family down with her.


One affair? Maybe. More than one? That’s more than a midlife crisis. In their home speaks to mental illness/borderline personality disorder. Risking everything in the family home is plain crazy.


I know a woman who did that, multiple times. Screwing the guy in the family home. To make matters worse she then had AP take her teenage son out for driving lessons when he got home from school. Claimed AP was just a "friend" and wasn't it nice he could teach him to drive since dad was busy in the office all day?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^^pp that’s what helped me evict them: time and the realization at how disgusting/pathetic they were/are. I would never do what they did to an enemy, let alone a spouse. I can’t lie. And the extent they did was just unreal.


Frankly, I laugh if “it” ever pops in my head. I think how desperate and pathetic you are to be 50 years old and sucking off men you met on the Internet in the guest room of the family home. It doesn’t get much lower than that.


Wait, did that actually happen to you? How did you find out and what did you do about it? I would be super disgusted if it were my spouse, but the fact that it was in family home where kids could be exposed would be absolute deal breaker.


She carried out both affairs in our family home. One of the dude’s wives found out.


Sorry that happened to you. Sounds like perhaps she was in some kind of mid life crisis. Too bad she didn’t just buy a car or something. Instead she self destructed and took her family down with her.


One affair? Maybe. More than one? That’s more than a midlife crisis. In their home speaks to mental illness/borderline personality disorder. Risking everything in the family home is plain crazy.


I know a woman who did that, multiple times. Screwing the guy in the family home. To make matters worse she then had AP take her teenage son out for driving lessons when he got home from school. Claimed AP was just a "friend" and wasn't it nice he could teach him to drive since dad was busy in the office all day?


That’s whack. Sounds like family found out and presumably it didn’t end well?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^^pp that’s what helped me evict them: time and the realization at how disgusting/pathetic they were/are. I would never do what they did to an enemy, let alone a spouse. I can’t lie. And the extent they did was just unreal.


Frankly, I laugh if “it” ever pops in my head. I think how desperate and pathetic you are to be 50 years old and sucking off men you met on the Internet in the guest room of the family home. It doesn’t get much lower than that.


Wait, did that actually happen to you? How did you find out and what did you do about it? I would be super disgusted if it were my spouse, but the fact that it was in family home where kids could be exposed would be absolute deal breaker.


She carried out both affairs in our family home. One of the dude’s wives found out.


Sorry that happened to you. Sounds like perhaps she was in some kind of mid life crisis. Too bad she didn’t just buy a car or something. Instead she self destructed and took her family down with her.


One affair? Maybe. More than one? That’s more than a midlife crisis. In their home speaks to mental illness/borderline personality disorder. Risking everything in the family home is plain crazy.


I get what you’re saying. But this also sounds so American. Quota for normality: one affair. LOL
Anonymous
Not every day, but I often think back to an ex of mine. The timing was way off for us but if the timing had been right, I think we could have lived a nice, easy life together.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:An ex-friend, but yes. At this point she’s been up there so long I think I’d miss her if she left.


Why can't you still be friends?
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