Tell me about being a mistress
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Anonymous
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I'm feeling terribly cynical about men and relationships in general. I do not feel equipped to be in a relationship, but I want consistent sex. There is a married man in my orbit whom I think would go for it.
If you've been an OW, what advice do you have? |
Anonymous
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Get an unmarried friend with benefits not a married man.
What is wrong with you?! |
Anonymous
| Dealing with a married man isn't going to make your cynicism any better, you may end up never wanting a real relationship. If I were you I wouldn't do it. It's not nice and, for more selfish reasons, the wife could find out and go psycho. It's just not worth the trouble. |
Anonymous
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Watch Dateline for insights into what happens to mistresses.
They either end up in jail for murder or the victim of a homicide. |
Anonymous
Lol, no |
Anonymous
| Ick. Op, you are an icky person |
Anonymous
| It sucks, don’t do it. You’ll start having feelings for him even though going in you say you won’t. You’ll want to see him more and you can’t. It’s awful |
Anonymous
| AMEN to PP. DONT DO iT. Been there. It is the absolute worsted |
Anonymous
| sorry- worst. Not worsted. |
Anonymous
| Why would you want to help ruining a family? It’s one thing if you fall in love with a married man. If you look for one, you are just despicable and there is really something wrong with tou |
Anonymous
+1 Don't do it OP. It's not worth it. |
Anonymous
| Do you want consistent sex with one person or can it be consistent sex with multiple people? |
Anonymous
One person |
Anonymous
| Surely there are plenty of unmarried men who would agree to no-strings-attached sex, no? |
Anonymous
| So get a f*ck buddy. Why would you ruin someone's marriage just so you can get laid? |