SAHW (stay -at-home-wife) dating websites???
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Anonymous
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OP here, are there any dating websites that are geared towards people who want the traditional roles of husbands and wives? I currently work and have a wonderful salary but I'd like to be a stay at home wife and then transition to a SAHM. I really wouldn't mind getting up before my husband and children to make breakfast and lunch, clean the house, exercise, run errands, do a bit of charity work at the church and make dinner in time for my family.
Could someone who loves this lifestyle give me pointers on how you deal with this lifestyle currently? How did you meet your husband? I'd appreciate tips. This is not a troll post, please don't treat it as such. I.AM.DEAD.SERIOUS. |
Anonymous
| Sugardaddy.com |
Anonymous
| A man is not a plan. |
Anonymous
| Just date conservative religious types. |
Anonymous
| Christian mingle maybe? |
Anonymous
| Be careful what you wish for |
Anonymous
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You don't need a specific website. You need to make it clear in your dating profile:
"I love my job and my single life, but my future dreams include having a family, and building a home with the man of my dreams. Hobbies include cooking, exercising, and decorating. I'll make you a mean pot-roast, a gorgeous birthday cake, and join you on the bike trail." If someone can't read between those lines, then he's too stupid to support a family financially anyway. There are PLENTY of men looking for this. |
Anonymous
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It’s good to want things.
Are you lazy in other aspects of your life? |
Anonymous
 This is very helpful, thank you.
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Anonymous
 I'm looking to be a wife not a prostitute, thank you.
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Anonymous
This is me, kinda sorta. We do have an every other week housecleaner. DH does do stuff aroun the house. I do more because I’m around more, but we each do our bit (same for the children). This is what I did. I said when we were engaged, “I will never be a sahp. Ever.” Emphatically. Then we had a child and he was hospitalized for a week for RSV, part of that time in the ICU. I went part time and that worked. We had another child and at 8months he also was hospitalized for RSV for 8 days (also ICU). I stayed part IME, but he returned t the hospital two more times and almost 4 times over the course of the next year (RAD). I quit after the third hospitalization. He got better and I stayed home until he was in 1stgrade. I went back to work and fall of his second grade and host brother’s 4th grade, all hell broke loose. We found out elder’s issues seemed from ASD and younger was diagnosed with fairly severe dyslexia (he now has several other diagnoses). Stay quit again and have been home ever since. It has been a long slog and we have spent quite a bit more time, effort, and money on our children than we ever anticipated. I am happy to say both are now in college and doing well. My career is gone. DH is planning on retiring in the next 3-5 years, not enough time to resurrect a career at this point. Life has a way of changing up our plans. |
Anonymous
| Male lawyer here. I would LOVE this. How old are you? |
Anonymous
| Go for the lawyer. He sounds nice.... |
Anonymous
OP here, I'm biracial (African American/White), 26 yrs old, no previous marriage or children out of wedlock experience. I have my B.A. in Poly Sci w/ a M.S. in Early Childhood education. I'm 5'2 and 128 lbs, currently working on those last 10lbs. I worked since I was 21 (graduated HS early and did TFA once I finished). How about yourself? |
Anonymous
Why don't two of you get together? It will save the OP time searching on various websites and it will save you time too. I am in favor of people with similar wants and needs finding each other quickly rather than wasting time on other people. I am not being snarky. I really mean it. |