When I was a teenager, if a cop was selectively detaining only me and my friends without letting us tell our side of the story, I almost certainly would have protested "We didn't do anything wrong" and the cop would have told me to shut up, but he would not have thrown me to the ground and sat on me or pulled a gun on me. But I am white. |
+1. I am somewhat puzzled that people are coming down on an 8th grader for not having the maturity and composure that an adult should have. She was irrational and emotional in response to someone being emotional and irrational with her a nd her group of friends. I would like to think that my 14YO just graduated 8th grade self would have handled it better - but I am not so sure. And I was raised in a suburban MC home as this girl seems to be. He cursed at her and her friends, it is really that unreasonable to think that teenager might say something back? The girl may have been wrong for mouthing off, but I expect the adult to be the more mature one in situations like this. |
How many black kids' hairs was he pulling exactly? |
Both were wrong and until we stopping make excuses for both sides and holding each person for accountability child or adult white or black we will still have this two sided issue |
Every time you say "totally inexcusable, BUT..." the BUT renders the first two words obsolete. Your "BUT" implies that, in fact, the actions were excusable because the teenager should have known better than to respond the way she did. When I was a teenager, some friends and I were in a park. We weren't doing anything wrong. We were just hanging out after school. Cop on patrol stopped, asked us what we were doing. We responded "hanging out" and he suggested that we "move along." Our actual response was "Why? It's a public park and we're not doing anything wrong." No one was thrown to the ground and no one pulled a gun. That said, we were all white. |
Tough guy picked out one 14-year-old girl to manhandle. That was all he could handle. He pulled the gun on the boys even though they were not threatening him or anyone else. |
No one is making excuses. I have said more than once the girl was wrong. Maybe it is just me, but I do not hold an 8th grader to the same standard of maturity and composure that I would hold an adult who is purportedly trained to deal with these types of situations. I expect the police in my neighborhood to be more mature and level headed than a MS student. But I guess that is just me. They both were wrong, but the adult was MORE wrong. IMO. |
No, not at all. In this situation the cop's actions were totally inexcusable. Period. He completely overreacted. That being said, there's a teachable moment here. Particularly for the youth. Not all officers are going to be calm and collected. They should be. But they won't always. Going forward, teenagers (or anyone for that matter) that comes across a stressed-out, highly volatile cop may want to be quiet and walk the other way quickly if instructed to do so, so as to not escalate the situation any further. That situation could've easily turned out even worse. I would |
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"No one is making excuses. I have said more than once the girl was wrong. Maybe it is just me, but I do not hold an 8th grader to the same standard of maturity and composure that I would hold an adult who is purportedly trained to deal with these types of situations. I expect the police in my neighborhood to be more mature and level headed than a MS student. But I guess that is just me. They both were wrong, but the adult was MORE wrong. IMO."
+1 Why is this so hard for some people? |
How are old you? No snark, just curiosity. I was born early 70s and was taught to respect authority and not question it, so even if I hadn't been doing anything wrong I wouldn't have questioned the instruction. I generally thought the kids of my generation felt the same way but I am willing to admit I could be totally wrong. |
My white son was thrown to the ground, manhandled and had a gun drown on him in Rockville, MD. He was 12, he had a toy gun, and was running through neighbor's yards (which he was told not to do). He learned his lesson. He did get on the ground and shut his mouth though when told to do so, as did his Hispanic friend. He did not mouth off and tell the cops... but... but... but ... it's a toy gun, this is legal, i didn't do anything wrong. He waited until an adult arrived. He was shoked, he was startled, I was pissed, but then I came to my senses. |
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Casebolt had just come from a scene where a man had blown his brains out in front of his family.
I'm going to give him a pass on being a bit emotional that day. Y'all can behave as you will. Carry on. |
Imagine if the chief had this information when he made his first statements. Alas, he caved to media pressure. |
Yeah but http://m.nydailynews.com/news/national/texas-pool-party-sued-2008-accused-abusing-driver-article-1.2251191 |
Of course the chief had this info. The chief wanted him gone, for good reason. |