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You are quoting me---and 100% yes. Access is huge. It was easier to start up and be an underdog when I was a kid because there were enough fields and the entry for teams to leagues wasn't as exclusionary---bad but nothing like today. Today--it is impossible with the monopoly out there. I, personally, can't take the arrogance. I have said time and time again my kids play with better kids and adults at our pick-up park than they do in the travel system. They enjoy it more too--I can never get them to leave! This is one of the many reasons we are looking forward to summer where they can stay out there late. No stupid super y for us. |
I'd like to clarify that not every Latino family or community is a poor one, economically speaking. I as a Latino male, raised by Latino parents, just can't bring myself to pay for all of the extras that are put out there by clubs and individual training. My experience is that other Latino families quickly see through the facade and either choose to keep their son in rec or join/start their own team through DFC or VISTA. If we're all being honest with ourselves, few of our children will play past their high school age, if they even are good enough to play for their high school. My sons elementary school has a lot of travel soccer players, cant imagine what it will be like when the Middle Schools combine. For myself, my son is in a large club playing travel, that doesn't mean I've drank the Kool aid, i just don't mind paying the club fees and my wife stays at home so uber-early practice times arent a big deal. I think sometimes the language barrier is too much to overcome for other Latino parents. I have a hard time doing the mindless chit chat in English as a fluent speaker with the other parents, I imagine I would stay mum or look for other Latinos during practices or games instead of embarrasing myself trying to talk in broken English if I my first language was Spanish. For next year I'm actually looking to join one of the several independent teams that have been created in NOVA area. Just a bit of perspective... |
Look at VPL standings. There is going to be VDA teams filled with players that get smacked around by CYA. I bet you they will examine their internal player policy only mindset after a year of beatings. |
I have a hard time doing mindless chit chat in English with other parents--and I am a gringo ![]() |
Never meant to say that Latino families are poor but agree with you that many see through the facade and aren't willing to pay for those very high fees. Regardless of the money, small clubs should be given the same opportunities to compete as those larger ones. |
No worries, BTW I don't think Latinos are the only ones that see the coaches sometimes phoning it in at practice and the extra training being not much better than the standard practices. Others do see it, they either don't say anything or aren't willing to leave. I don't think you need to know anything about soccer to know if your son is learning new skills, growing as a player, doing enough exercise at practice, to see if the training is worth what you're paying for. I would count myself as one parent who would rather leave the club than talk to the Directors and coaches about the training/development. Interpersonal conflict is not one of my strengths. |
Just FYI:
Washington Spirit is not the only Super Y option in this area. Also not the only choice for Girls DA. So, what exactly is the problem? |
Can you give us some kind of definition for small clubs? And maybe some examples. Arlington is a big club, no doubts. Would BRYC count as a small club, I don't think so. Would FPYC count as small club, maybe, but they're still in a lot of competitions. TAFC count as small club, there are lot of Latinos in that club, not sure if that's where you were going with it though. |
Interesting to note that there are likely no "qualifying players" in the clubs they've partnered with -- Reston and Gunston |
Spirit has partnered with several clubs in the area not just Reston and Gunston. |
Gunston has a team in NCSL D1 in nearly every age group. They are also joining NPL. Naturally, that means squat to everyone but them. |
Looked at boys VPL standings and CYA is only beating the pack at U11. Are you referring to boys VDA or girls VDA? |
Girls. That area produces good talent on the girls side- But most of the good talent in that area left VSA-PWSI long ago and went to FCV. Now they are fielding VDA girls teams with their current pool...which cant even dominate VPL. Strap up...its going to be a long year |
The strongest tears in VPL are the Richmond teams, across age groups and gender. |