Beauvoir Scandal?

[Anonymous]

Wow, it's pretty angry around here. Not a lot of kindness going around. I think I'm glad I don't know any of you in real life. Happy Easter!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't mind an update from Beauvoir. It is kind of unbelievable that our "support" was limited to three letters and a free child psychologist appointment. I can't imagine it is entirely due to building a case. I just feel we were all left adrift. So for me, even though this thread is a reminder of something I'm trying to move past, it remains the only conversation any of us seem to be allowed to have on the subject. Anonymously that is.

Totally, agree!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't mind an update from Beauvoir. It is kind of unbelievable that our "support" was limited to three letters and a free child psychologist appointment. I can't imagine it is entirely due to building a case. I just feel we were all left adrift. So for me, even though this thread is a reminder of something I'm trying to move past, it remains the only conversation any of us seem to be allowed to have on the subject. Anonymously that is.

Totally, agree!

Look, if you're so desperate for information that you need to post anonymously in DCUM for information, then honestly? You're actually too stupid to have a child at Beauvoir. But having said that, I'll be a sport and play along.

Here's what you need to do: "Fire" your Parent Association Governing Board from xxxxx on down. You have a designated body to represent you, it's not like it's a mystery whom you should contact. If you want information from the Administration or Board of Trustees and you're not getting it? Which leads you to think they're not doing their jobs? Then run for the PA offices! It's not like the cost of campaigning is prohibitive. And if you truly represent the families of these boys (as you claim)? Then you will find yourselves very sympathetic candidates, with an easy path to electoral victory.

Otherwise, your claim of trying to get information from this forum (eyes rolling in disbelief...)? Let's just say it rings a little hollow. Much like the space between your ears.

[Anonymous]

For instance, I had no idea Toth was on the FBI's Most Wanted.

Because he's not. He was on America's Most Wanted, which is a TV show. The FBI's most wanted list includes people like Osama Bin Laden and can't be bothered with this.

[Anonymous]

People are still venting because there has been no arrest and NO accountability.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

For instance, I had no idea Toth was on the FBI's Most Wanted.

Because he's not. He was on America's Most Wanted, which is a TV show. The FBI's most wanted list includes people like Osama Bin Laden and can't be bothered with this.

Anonymous wrote:
Yes. Eric Toth has been placed on the FBI's MOST WANTED list.

Not quite. He was on "America's Most Wanted".

The FBI has him on a longer list of people wanted for crimes against children.

http://www.fbi.gov/wanted/fugitives/cac/fug_cac.htm

[Anonymous]

Possible source of confusion.
http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local/Ex-Beauvoir-Teacher-Makes-FBIs-Most-Wanted-List.html

[Anonymous]

Has anyone ever seen the actual background check or fingerprints the school claims they did on Toth?

Are they filed away? Do they even exist?

[Anonymous]

It's pretty easy to clear a legitimate background check if you've never been caught for anything before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Given that you don't have anything to do with Beauvoir why bother reading this thread and commenting. For those of us who have anything to do with the Close community and are in the healing process, some of us need an opportunity to vent about this from time to time. By the way, this topic is by no means ancient. There are children from one of Toth's 3rd-grade classes who are still discussing his having boys sit on his lap. In addition to parents, our children have been scarred as they were betrayed by this asshole.

Oh my God! And you think anonymous gossiping about those boys and their trauma in this forum actually HELPS? Perpetuating the scandal HELPS? Do you also parade rape victims in public in order to "gain public sympathy" "for their own or the greater good"??

You are so disgustingly creepy that I feel sorry for not only your own children, but every child who has the misfortune to be known by you. You are feeding on their agony, you poor social parasite. You are grotesque.

No one is feeding on agony. Concerned people [doesn't have to be just parents of potential students] now have the lap and closed door information as posted on this forum recently. Ergo the confusion about why the administration took NO action. Talk to children above the age of 6 including teens and ask if this is NORMAL in a school. It is not and no one at Beauvoir has been accountable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Given that you don't have anything to do with Beauvoir why bother reading this thread and commenting. For those of us who have anything to do with the Close community and are in the healing process, some of us need an opportunity to vent about this from time to time. By the way, this topic is by no means ancient. There are children from one of Toth's 3rd-grade classes who are still discussing his having boys sit on his lap. In addition to parents, our children have been scarred as they were betrayed by this asshole.

Oh my God! And you think anonymous gossiping about those boys and their trauma in this forum actually HELPS? Perpetuating the scandal HELPS? Do you also parade rape victims in public in order to "gain public sympathy" "for their own or the greater good"??

You are so disgustingly creepy that I feel sorry for not only your own children, but every child who has the misfortune to be known by you. You are feeding on their agony, you poor social parasite. You are grotesque.

No one is feeding on agony. Concerned people [doesn't have to be just parents of potential students] now have the lap and closed door information as posted on this forum recently. Ergo the confusion about why the administration took NO action. Talk to children above the age of 6 including teens and ask if this is NORMAL in a school. It is not and no one at Beauvoir has been accountable.

If you are that concerned you would contact the school and authorities directly, rather than posting details that are easily accessible to children (yes - they can come on here as well) and their parents who are already dealing with the trauma of the situation. Unless you are at the school or were or will be, I don't see how this is really any of your concern. Sure, the story is awful and everyone is concerned at first, but to be on here with fake "concern" a year later, I find hard to believe that it is out of anything but malice. Shame on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Given that you don't have anything to do with Beauvoir why bother reading this thread and commenting. For those of us who have anything to do with the Close community and are in the healing process, some of us need an opportunity to vent about this from time to time. By the way, this topic is by no means ancient. There are children from one of Toth's 3rd-grade classes who are still discussing his having boys sit on his lap. In addition to parents, our children have been scarred as they were betrayed by this asshole.

Oh my God! And you think anonymous gossiping about those boys and their trauma in this forum actually HELPS? Perpetuating the scandal HELPS? Do you also parade rape victims in public in order to "gain public sympathy" "for their own or the greater good"??

You are so disgustingly creepy that I feel sorry for not only your own children, but every child who has the misfortune to be known by you. You are feeding on their agony, you poor social parasite. You are grotesque.

No one is feeding on agony. Concerned people [doesn't have to be just parents of potential students] now have the lap and closed door information as posted on this forum recently. Ergo the confusion about why the administration took NO action. Talk to children above the age of 6 including teens and ask if this is NORMAL in a school. It is not and no one at Beauvoir has been accountable.

If you are not at Beauvoir or won't be, I find it creepy that you are so "concerned" about this. Focus on your own school and let the parents at Beauvoir deal with their own school. Surely, you must have something better to do with your time, and if you don't, I feel sorry for you! Truly!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Given that you don't have anything to do with Beauvoir why bother reading this thread and commenting. For those of us who have anything to do with the Close community and are in the healing process, some of us need an opportunity to vent about this from time to time. By the way, this topic is by no means ancient. There are children from one of Toth's 3rd-grade classes who are still discussing his having boys sit on his lap. In addition to parents, our children have been scarred as they were betrayed by this asshole.

Oh my God! And you think anonymous gossiping about those boys and their trauma in this forum actually HELPS? Perpetuating the scandal HELPS? Do you also parade rape victims in public in order to "gain public sympathy" "for their own or the greater good"??

You are so disgustingly creepy that I feel sorry for not only your own children, but every child who has the misfortune to be known by you. You are feeding on their agony, you poor social parasite. You are grotesque.

No one is feeding on agony. Concerned people [doesn't have to be just parents of potential students] now have the lap and closed door information as posted on this forum recently. Ergo the confusion about why the administration took NO action. Talk to children above the age of 6 including teens and ask if this is NORMAL in a school. It is not and no one at Beauvoir has been accountable.

If you are not at Beauvoir or won't be, I find it creepy that you are so "concerned" about this. Focus on your own school and let the parents at Beauvoir deal with their own school. Surely, you must have something better to do with your time, and if you don't, I feel sorry for you! Truly!

This is none of your business, yet you persist. It's creepy and weird that you're commenting when you can just avoid this post. Then you keep harping back to your Beauvoir acceptance/rejection letters format. WTF is wrong with you?

No one wants public sympathy, we're looking for answers as no one at Beauvoir has been accountable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Given that you don't have anything to do with Beauvoir why bother reading this thread and commenting. For those of us who have anything to do with the Close community and are in the healing process, some of us need an opportunity to vent about this from time to time. By the way, this topic is by no means ancient. There are children from one of Toth's 3rd-grade classes who are still discussing his having boys sit on his lap. In addition to parents, our children have been scarred as they were betrayed by this asshole.

Oh my God! And you think anonymous gossiping about those boys and their trauma in this forum actually HELPS? Perpetuating the scandal HELPS? Do you also parade rape victims in public in order to "gain public sympathy" "for their own or the greater good"??

You are so disgustingly creepy that I feel sorry for not only your own children, but every child who has the misfortune to be known by you. You are feeding on their agony, you poor social parasite. You are grotesque.

No one is feeding on agony. Concerned people [doesn't have to be just parents of potential students] now have the lap and closed door information as posted on this forum recently. Ergo the confusion about why the administration took NO action. Talk to children above the age of 6 including teens and ask if this is NORMAL in a school. It is not and no one at Beauvoir has been accountable.

If you are not at Beauvoir or won't be, I find it creepy that you are so "concerned" about this. Focus on your own school and let the parents at Beauvoir deal with their own school. Surely, you must have something better to do with your time, and if you don't, I feel sorry for you! Truly!

This is none of your business, yet you persist. It's creepy and weird that you're commenting when you can just avoid this post. Then you keep harping back to your Beauvoir acceptance/rejection letters format. WTF is wrong with you?

No one wants public sympathy, we're looking for answers as no one at Beauvoir has been accountable.

But are you affiliated with Beauvoir in any way is the question? If so, there are ways in which you can get answers etc... If you are affiliated with the school, then I don't understand why you care so much? Who owes you any answers? I have no idea what you are talking about in regards to rejection letters. Not me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Given that you don't have anything to do with Beauvoir why bother reading this thread and commenting. For those of us who have anything to do with the Close community and are in the healing process, some of us need an opportunity to vent about this from time to time. By the way, this topic is by no means ancient. There are children from one of Toth's 3rd-grade classes who are still discussing his having boys sit on his lap. In addition to parents, our children have been scarred as they were betrayed by this asshole.

Oh my God! And you think anonymous gossiping about those boys and their trauma in this forum actually HELPS? Perpetuating the scandal HELPS? Do you also parade rape victims in public in order to "gain public sympathy" "for their own or the greater good"??

You are so disgustingly creepy that I feel sorry for not only your own children, but every child who has the misfortune to be known by you. You are feeding on their agony, you poor social parasite. You are grotesque.

No one is feeding on agony. Concerned people [doesn't have to be just parents of potential students] now have the lap and closed door information as posted on this forum recently. Ergo the confusion about why the administration took NO action. Talk to children above the age of 6 including teens and ask if this is NORMAL in a school. It is not and no one at Beauvoir has been accountable.

If you are not at Beauvoir or won't be, I find it creepy that you are so "concerned" about this. Focus on your own school and let the parents at Beauvoir deal with their own school. Surely, you must have something better to do with your time, and if you don't, I feel sorry for you! Truly!

This is none of your business, yet you persist. It's creepy and weird that you're commenting when you can just avoid this post. Then you keep harping back to your Beauvoir acceptance/rejection letters format. WTF is wrong with you?

No one wants public sympathy, we're looking for answers as no one at Beauvoir has been accountable.

But are you affiliated with Beauvoir in any way is the question? If so, there are ways in which you can get answers etc... If you are affiliated with the school, then I don't understand why you care so much? Who owes you any answers? I have no idea what you are talking about in regards to rejection letters. Not me.

Meant to say "if you are NOT affiliated with the school, then..."