Met a guy at a party I like but two guys I DON'T like are texting me

[Anonymous]

I went to a party recently and was chatting with these really tall, attractive guy who seemed to like me very much too- kind of hung around me, all my friends pointed out how he was checking me out, etc.

Eventually I went upstairs to grab a drink and hung out up there talking to people, and he left in the meantime after saying goodbye.

Now, I am a friendly drunk (as in talkative and nice), and gave my phone number to two of the guys at the party, neither of whom I would ever be interested in romantically.

Both of them have started texting me almost daily and they've asked me out.

My concerns are twofold: My friend is dating their friend, I dont want to make things awkward by just ghosting them. 2) I dont want to be like "I have a boyfriend" because I want to run into this guy again and hopefully get to interact with him more.

Is there any way to politely reject the two guys I dont want without causing weird feelings and still get access to the tall guy? I'm pretty attractive and was honestly considering asking my friend to give me the guy's number or something- but I've never done that before.

[Anonymous]

I feel like I am back in high school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

[Anonymous]

If the tall guy wanted your number, he would have asked before leaving. He's not interested.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

Haha, tool.

Any post with "I am pretty attractive.." deserves a jerk-off comment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

Haha, tool.

Any post with "I am pretty attractive.." deserves a jerk-off comment.

Any post where you make fun of younger people deserves being called out for being old and bitter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

Haha, tool.

Any post with "I am pretty attractive.." deserves a jerk-off comment.

Any post where you make fun of younger people deserves being called out for being old and bitter.

I am the last person to be bitter. I appreciate women of all ages. I work with young undergrads and they have so much potential. They are great, and I learn so much from them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

Haha, tool.

Any post with "I am pretty attractive.." deserves a jerk-off comment.

Any post where you make fun of younger people deserves being called out for being old and bitter.

I am the last person to be bitter. I appreciate women of all ages. I work with young undergrads and they have so much potential. They are great, and I learn so much from them.

No one cares.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the tall guy wanted your number, he would have asked before leaving. He's not interested.

I would usually think exactly this but I moved to an area that is notoriously shy and socially awkward and reserved. I am decidedly NOT those things but have had to learn to adjust. He definitely liked me but never asked for my number. I don’t even care if he’s not head over heels for me (although I do think, again- he really liked me) at this point. He’s the one I like, not the other two- so I’d rather hang with him. It's just a matter of going about getting to him since I've never pursued a guy before in my life (but in this new town I think I'll have to get used to it)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

Haha, tool.

Any post with "I am pretty attractive.." deserves a jerk-off comment.

Any post where you make fun of younger people deserves being called out for being old and bitter.

I am the last person to be bitter. I appreciate women of all ages. I work with young undergrads and they have so much potential. They are great, and I learn so much from them.

No one cares.

Just like no one gives a f-ck about your boy troubles.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

Haha, tool.

Any post with "I am pretty attractive.." deserves a jerk-off comment.

Any post where you make fun of younger people deserves being called out for being old and bitter.

I am the last person to be bitter. I appreciate women of all ages. I work with young undergrads and they have so much potential. They are great, and I learn so much from them.

No one cares.

Just like no one gives a f-ck about your boy troubles.

Well apparently you do since you're squatting on my thread. Get a life, gramps.

[Anonymous]

If the guy you are interested in was interested in you, he would have asked for your number. If you were interested, you should have asked for his number.

If you were not interested in the two guys, you should never have given them your number. You've led them on by giving them your number. You need to find a polite way to tell them you are not interested and not just ghosting them. It's just obnoxious to give out your number then ghost them. If you were so drunk that you could not control yourself and gave out your number when you didn't want to, you have a drinking problem and need to have that addressed before you party again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the guy you are interested in was interested in you, he would have asked for your number. If you were interested, you should have asked for his number.

If you were not interested in the two guys, you should never have given them your number. You've led them on by giving them your number. You need to find a polite way to tell them you are not interested and not just ghosting them. It's just obnoxious to give out your number then ghost them. If you were so drunk that you could not control yourself and gave out your number when you didn't want to, you have a drinking problem and need to have that addressed before you party again.

Yes I'm definitely going to tell my doctor that I got drunk at a Halloween party once and need immediate rehab. I'm sure that will go over well.

[Anonymous]

Tall Guy is probably not interested.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

Haha, tool.

Any post with "I am pretty attractive.." deserves a jerk-off comment.

Any post where you make fun of younger people deserves being called out for being old and bitter.

I am the last person to be bitter. I appreciate women of all ages. I work with young undergrads and they have so much potential. They are great, and I learn so much from them.

No one cares.

Just like no one gives a f-ck about your boy troubles.

Well apparently you do since you're squatting on my thread. Get a life, gramps.

I am not even a gramps, but nice try sweetits.