In my experience, relative height is a top 3 importance attribute for 75% of straight American women. It's pretty damn important. |
Height is suppppper important. It might rank up there with like face quality. I dont know. There are kinds of guys who like different things about women, so I feel like there is really no equivalent on a woman... |
| Text the guys to screw off. Tell them they're losers |
This! OP! Pay attention. All the men you referenced from that party are losers. They are all going to be bad husbands for different reasons. You got sucked into some a**holes charisma. Charisma in men usually means heartbreaker. Your heart isn't broken, just forget him and find a nice "nice guy" to dote on. This thread is also hilarious, because some ratchety pps. I am one of you 30-50 something "old people, too." |
| OP, are you the volleyball player who thinks anyone under 5'7" is creepy? |
\ Not OP but I think almost all women dislike shorties. Sorry. |
LOL I bet most of the misogynist alt-right guys are under 5'8". It's the only rational explanation I have for their petulant anger and hatred of women. Tall guys are too busy making money, getting laid/being in a relationship, or focused on athletics. |
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OP, you need to grow a backbone. Learn now how to give out your number to every guy that asks, first of all. Beg off for safety, or whatever, but if they’re pushy, get their number instead. Don’t give your out.
Learn to use your voice and get a guys number if you want it. |
+1 This is why I too feel like I'm back in HS. And I'm 35 - not a grandpa. |
I have to say I agree. Many of the hateful misogynist posters on here are incels. |
Not sure if there is an equivalent for women but with the example above it would be more similar to being thin because you might be comparing to yourself. Like I want a guy taller than me. A guy might want a woman thinner than him. I assume it’s a given she will have larger breasts than him. |
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eh, what were you thinking? You gave those guys mixed signals by being friendly to them AND giving them your phone number. They liked you so they texted you. Now you feel bothered that they are texting you?
Come on, Op. Just tell them that you aren't interested and apologize for giving them the wrong impression. Oh, and Mr. Tall, Dark and Handsome wasn't interested.... |
being thin |
But making fun of you idiots is soooooo easy. It would be irresponsible NOT to make fun of you. How else would you learn how stupid you look otherwise? |
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Stop drinking so much. Especially when you are hoping to meet a guy.
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