Met a guy at a party I like but two guys I DON'T like are texting me

[Anonymous]

This is how women end up with losers.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

Haha, tool.

Any post with "I am pretty attractive.." deserves a jerk-off comment.

Any post where you make fun of younger people deserves being called out for being old and bitter.

I am the last person to be bitter. I appreciate women of all ages. I work with young undergrads and they have so much potential. They are great, and I learn so much from them.

No one cares.

Just like no one gives a f-ck about your boy troubles.

Well apparently you do since you're squatting on my thread. Get a life, gramps.

I am not even a gramps, but nice try sweetits.

Is that the old geezer insult du jour? Mel used it too. It didn't go well for him.

[Anonymous]

Honestly not sure what the question is here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly not sure what the question is here.

The TL;DR: I don't know how to reject these two guys without ruining my chance with the other guy, and without alienating me from the whole group (friend is involved). Bonus points for someone who can tell me how to non-creepily get the guy I like's number.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly not sure what the question is here.

The TL;DR: I don't know how to reject these two guys without ruining my chance with the other guy, and without alienating me from the whole group (friend is involved). Bonus points for someone who can tell me how to non-creepily get the guy I like's number.

Your answer depends on your knowledge of game theory. Study up.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly not sure what the question is here.

The TL;DR: I don't know how to reject these two guys without ruining my chance with the other guy, and without alienating me from the whole group (friend is involved). Bonus points for someone who can tell me how to non-creepily get the guy I like's number.

Your answer depends on your knowledge of game theory. Study up.

Either inform us or keep it moving...

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like I am back in high school.

Did texting exist in the 40s?

Haha, tool.

Any post with "I am pretty attractive.." deserves a jerk-off comment.

Any post where you make fun of younger people deserves being called out for being old and bitter.

I am the last person to be bitter. I appreciate women of all ages. I work with young undergrads and they have so much potential. They are great, and I learn so much from them.

No one cares.

Just like no one gives a f-ck about your boy troubles.

Well apparently you do since you're squatting on my thread. Get a life, gramps.

I am not even a gramps, but nice try sweetits.

Is that the old geezer insult du jour? Mel used it too. It didn't go well for him.

Who the f-ck is Mel?

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Who the f-ck is Mel?

Wow, even that went over your head. Time to get off the internet, oldie.

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Anonymous wrote:If the guy you are interested in was interested in you, he would have asked for your number. If you were interested, you should have asked for his number.

If you were not interested in the two guys, you should never have given them your number. You've led them on by giving them your number. You need to find a polite way to tell them you are not interested and not just ghosting them. It's just obnoxious to give out your number then ghost them. If you were so drunk that you could not control yourself and gave out your number when you didn't want to, you have a drinking problem and need to have that addressed before you party again.

Yes I'm definitely going to tell my doctor that I got drunk at a Halloween party once and need immediate rehab. I'm sure that will go over well.

Wow. You made so many mistakes and this is what you picked up from my response?

Small wonder you got yourself into trouble and don't know how to get out of it politely.

[Anonymous]

Oh for gods sake there is nothing wrong with giving out your number to guys you weren't sure about.

Is tall guy friends with the two guys you are texting?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh for gods sake there is nothing wrong with giving out your number to guys you weren't sure about.

Is tall guy friends with the two guys you are texting?

I believe so... he said he was kind of friends with someone there, not the host. I'm kind of new to the group so I dont know the dynamics well
(And... thanks for this genuinely helpful and nice response)

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly not sure what the question is here.

New poster here. OP isn't very bright.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly not sure what the question is here.

New poster here. OP isn't very bright.

Another useless, typical DCUM response- begone!

[Anonymous]

Use the one-date rule. If they don't seem psycho, go on one date. Then when they ask for date number two, you say that you're not feeling a connection and wish them well.

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Anonymous wrote:Use the one-date rule. If they don't seem psycho, go on one date. Then when they ask for date number two, you say that you're not feeling a connection and wish them well.

Thank you for this. I was thinking of agreeing to meet them for drinks, paying for myself since I'm not interested in romance, and then mentioning on the date- I'm not in the place for romance right now. But then I just dont want word to get around, if that makes sense.