Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Usually these affairs are faaaar less glitzy and the other woman gets faaaar less compensation than what the Op is getting. But, ya, they happen. And really this scenario is not that much different than the typical run of the mill affair.

Yep, and the reality is that the "keeper" and the "kept" actually end up having a relationship that is more than just paying for sex and being paid for sex.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you man died in a car accident today, would you go to the funeral?

I don't know. I wouldn't want to do anything to compound his wife's grief. I'd have to think hard about that.

What do you mean "compound his wife's grief"? Would you try to stake a claim to his assets? Show up to his funeral? Ask her for your rent money?

If he died, it would just be...over. Done. There really would be nothing left for you. You do get that, right?

Huh? Of course I wouldn't stake a claim to his assets. I don't know why you'd even think that? Someone asked if I would go to the funeral and I just said I'm not sure.

The mourners at his funeral would be her circle of friends/family/support not your's. You do understand that, don't you?

Not necessarily. A funeral is for saying goodbye to someone you care about, too. The deceased has old and new friends, colleagues, and family that may wish to attend to acknowledge his passing. That's why the obituary is published in the paper.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

And I think the same of 'those' women!! "Those women' are the ones that usually settle and then come on and bitch, bitch, bitch. The husbands are usually was less attractive than they are and they are there solely for his wallet and the ability to not work.ever.

Those of us that met our spouses at 25-26...have a different perspective. Yes- my DH was uber attractive, super intelligent, confident and funny as hell..we made the same $ when we met. He now makes 4X me...but I am still working (from home) to this day.

I will always have a source of my own income. I sayin' she's a gold digger...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

And I think the same of 'those' women!! "Those women' are the ones that usually settle and then come on and bitch, bitch, bitch. The husbands are usually was less attractive than they are and they are there solely for his wallet and the ability to not work.ever.

Those of us that met our spouses at 25-26...have a different perspective. Yes- my DH was uber attractive, super intelligent, confident and funny as hell..we made the same $ when we met. He now makes 4X me...but I am still working (from home) to this day.

I will always have a source of my own income. I sayin' she's a gold digger...

She has a somewhat formalized pecuniary relationship with her guy. Many, many women go after an affluent professional for the same reason. You may not have done so but it would be naive to think that is not the motivation of many women especially in this town.

[Anonymous]

Yes- my DH was uber attractive, super intelligent, confident and funny as hell..

Exactly the kind of man who will be a 'good provider,' in other words. Hmm......

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

She doesn't sound LIKE a prostitute. She IS a prostitute.

[Anonymous]

Wow @people really are nosey about a side-chicks lifestyle

What do you think is the whole point of starting an AMA thread? You make a claim that you think will interest people and you invite them to ask all their questions... if it weren't for nosey people, these threads wouldn't exist in the first place.

Whatever. I have no doubt that OP is an attention-seeking liar who started this thread for her own amusement. She is not who she claims to be, and she is not living the lifestyle she claims to live. She is a bored narcissist starving for attention and she thought this thread would be a great way to do that.

Contrary to what she claims, she did not get us "all riled up". Readers' reactions have varied from disbelief to disgust to naïve curiosity to intrigue at trying to dig for more fake info.

It was obvious many pages back when she had to backpedal from her initial claim that he paid for a year's rent upfront because that answer spawned some trickier questions that she couldn't answer. So she changed it to say that he paid for three months' rent upfront. That's simply not the kind of detail that would be forgotten... so her fiction had to be fine-tuned by claiming that "oops, I forgot, it was actually three months".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you man died in a car accident today, would you go to the funeral?

I don't know. I wouldn't want to do anything to compound his wife's grief. I'd have to think hard about that.

What do you mean "compound his wife's grief"? Would you try to stake a claim to his assets? Show up to his funeral? Ask her for your rent money?

If he died, it would just be...over. Done. There really would be nothing left for you. You do get that, right?

Huh? Of course I wouldn't stake a claim to his assets. I don't know why you'd even think that? Someone asked if I would go to the funeral and I just said I'm not sure.

The mourners at his funeral would be her circle of friends/family/support not your's. You do understand that, don't you?

Not necessarily. A funeral is for saying goodbye to someone you care about, too. The deceased has old and new friends, colleagues, and family that may wish to attend to acknowledge his passing. That's why the obituary is published in the paper.

Generally the family is publishing the obituary in the newspaper to inform old *friends*, *colleagues*, *neighbors*, *church members* and the like that the death has happened. I think it is pretty obvious that illicit mistresses are not included in the invite....and that the family is not going out of their way to notify such persons of the death.

That does not mean that mistresses do not have a right to their grief. It is just that theirs is a more private grief, just like the relationship that they had with the decedent was private not public.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:E.Y.D.

Did you google for this or do you know this person?

[Anonymous]

^I will add that this is the role that the mistress chose for herself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

She doesn't sound LIKE a prostitute. She IS a prostitute.

What do you call a woman who marries a guy for his money? Why do you think Wendi Deng married Rupert Murdoch? Why do you think Donald Trump's wife married him? Was it their good looks? Their incredible charm? Or was it for their money? And what does it make them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

And I think the same of 'those' women!! "Those women' are the ones that usually settle and then come on and bitch, bitch, bitch. The husbands are usually was less attractive than they are and they are there solely for his wallet and the ability to not work.ever.

Those of us that met our spouses at 25-26...have a different perspective. Yes- my DH was uber attractive, super intelligent, confident and funny as hell..we made the same $ when we met. He now makes 4X me...but I am still working (from home) to this day.

I will always have a source of my own income. I sayin' she's a gold digger...

She has a somewhat formalized pecuniary relationship with her guy. Many, many women go after an affluent professional for the same reason. You may not have done so but it would be naive to think that is not the motivation of many women especially in this town.

+1000 Ka-ching!

[Anonymous]

she did not get us "all riled up".

46 pages in 28 hours? Oh, I think we're riled up....

[Anonymous]

Would he be ok with you posting here, with details like how he earns a living?