Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How much do you spend a month? Do you have an allowance or can you spend whatever amount you want?

I'm sure if I went crazy spending, he would create a limit. He pays for everything I do to keep myself looking good for him. Gym, personal trainer, facials, spray tans, nails, lingerie, dresses, healthy foods, makeup, waxing, etc.

Do you find all of that to be a fulfilling way to spend your time/energy or do you often get bored with self maintenance/physical beautification and wish that there was more...accomplishment...in your life?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is he married?

He is.

Not to you?

[Anonymous]

Does your family know?

Your friends?

[Anonymous]

Do you have to be faithful?

[Anonymous]

What if you get pregnant?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How much do you spend a month? Do you have an allowance or can you spend whatever amount you want?

I'm sure if I went crazy spending, he would create a limit. He pays for everything I do to keep myself looking good for him. Gym, personal trainer, facials, spray tans, nails, lingerie, dresses, healthy foods, makeup, waxing, etc.

Do you find all of that to be a fulfilling way to spend your time/energy or do you often get bored with self maintenance/physical beautification and wish that there was more...accomplishment...in your life?

If I weren't with him I would still find a way to do all these things anyway, so it's not a huge deal to work on upkeep.

[Anonymous]

How old are you?

How long are you going to do this for?

Is your own personal life and development on hold for this arrangement?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is he married?

He is.

Not to you?

Not to me. He was engaged when we met.

[Anonymous]

What is your ethnicity? If white, what specifically (e.g., Italian, Russian, English etc.)

[Anonymous]

And how much $$ does he earn per year?

And what is his ethnicity?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does your family know?

Your friends?

My friends do. My family doesn't.

[Anonymous]

Do you have a personality disorder? Why don't you want your own relationship?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is a kept woman?

NP here. A mistress that is supported by the man.

[Anonymous]

Is this acceptable in your culture or his? Not judging. My family is full of me with second families.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have to be faithful?

Oh good question! We have not talked about that, weirdly. But my guess is it would cause a fracture in our relationship if he knew I was with other men, though he wouldn't feel "cheated on" rather just not as close with me. He knows I bring other men to family weddings and such, which doesn't bother him.