Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are young and hot and want to be kept you are better off finding a rich man who will marry you, then pump out a few kids as "insurance policies", and staying hot as long as you can before he moves on. At least you will get alimony/support until the kids are done with college. As it is now he could drop you anytime and you'd have nothing.

LOL! There's the blueprint there, fellas, and the reason to never get married in the first place.

yup, but some men never learn.

[Anonymous]

Women who live like this:

Anonymous wrote:If you are young and hot and want to be kept you are better off finding a rich man who will marry you, then pump out a few kids as "insurance policies", and staying hot as long as you can before he moves on. At least you will get alimony/support until the kids are done with college. As it is now he could drop you anytime and you'd have nothing.

Don't honestly marriage/kids/family. They want an ATM machine, it just comes with the trappings of marriage/kids/family.

[Anonymous]

Don't honestly want

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
yup, but some men never learn.

It's true. We're pray and you're predators. We should be teaching men this from a young age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women who live like this:

Anonymous wrote:If you are young and hot and want to be kept you are better off finding a rich man who will marry you, then pump out a few kids as "insurance policies", and staying hot as long as you can before he moves on. At least you will get alimony/support until the kids are done with college. As it is now he could drop you anytime and you'd have nothing.

Don't honestly marriage/kids/family. They want an ATM machine, it just comes with the trappings of marriage/kids/family.

They are no different than OP with regard to their mercenary goals but they would never get bashed and called names like OP has on this thread.

[Anonymous]

"Mercenaries." Nice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I find OP's contentment in line with the mindset of many millenials. She likes what she is doing, is aware that she has a brief window to savor it, and is not particularly troubled by its fragility or shortcomings. My older daughter is roaming Europe for the next 3 months with a group of college students and recent grads. They work as needed, but mostly are happy to have bread and cheese for dinner if it means they can afford to spend a 4 day weekend in Prague. My daughter is becoming conversant in 4 languages and meeting dozens of people from all walks of life. She's had 3 articles published about her experiences. I was too neurotic at her age to do anything but research grad schools and hone my resume.

Milenials: that's the value of this thread: milenials. Few moms on this thread are milenials. Things were different when we came of age (ie graduated in the 90s).

We don't understand milenials. How could we? Maybe OPs a myth.

But parents, please realize how different things are for young people graduating today. And do not over estimate the value of your life experience; you became independent and went out into a very very different world with a very different outlook from the milenials.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
yup, but some men never learn.

It's true. We're pray and you're predators. We should be teaching men this from a young age.

Those men and their rage issues!

[Anonymous]

No rage about it. It's all about education. Why do you hate education?

[Anonymous]

That's like hitting your thumb with a hammer over, and over, and over. Wouldn't you tell someone there's a way to pound the nail without hitting your thumb repeatedly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Mercenaries." Nice.

Totally true especially in places like the DC metro area.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women who live like this:

Anonymous wrote:If you are young and hot and want to be kept you are better off finding a rich man who will marry you, then pump out a few kids as "insurance policies", and staying hot as long as you can before he moves on. At least you will get alimony/support until the kids are done with college. As it is now he could drop you anytime and you'd have nothing.

Don't honestly marriage/kids/family. They want an ATM machine, it just comes with the trappings of marriage/kids/family.

They are no different than OP with regard to their mercenary goals but they would never get bashed and called names like OP has on this thread.

Have you not seen the countless SAHM vs WOHM threads?

[Anonymous]

I think all of the men who are coming on here and taking pride in a "she sure showed them" way sound bitter and creepy. It's just weird.

[Anonymous]

OP - have you ever had a pregnancy scare?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
yup, but some men never learn.

It's true. We're pray and you're predators. We should be teaching men this from a young age.

Teach them how to spell first.