s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?

[Anonymous]

Just out of curiosity since there is a thread for the ladies (I'm one of the women that responded,btw). I'm eager to see of any of those characteristics will be the same.

[Anonymous]

Deal maker:

Matching libido
Challenges me
Ambitious

Deal breaker:

Drama in any way, shape, or form

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just out of curiosity since there is a thread for the ladies (I'm one of the women that responded,btw). I'm eager to see of any of those characteristics will be the same.

Deal maker:

Confidence
Laughs easily
Sexually adventurous.

Deal breaker:

You shaved your eyebrows and penciled new ones in
Lot of debt and a proclivity for shopping
Mockery of any kind aimed at anyone

[Anonymous]

Dealmaker:

Attractive
Fun
Sexually adventurous
Good sense of humor.
Outgoing personality

Dealbreaker

Drama
Low libido
Status and brand obsessed, into Louis Vuitton and other similar frivolous purchases

[Anonymous]

Deal maker:
Ability to give and take honest criticism.
Willingness to actually give something up in a compromise.
Willingness to be honest about how she views sex, children, marriage and career goals.
Willingness to listen to thoughts and ideas that are not her own.
Willingness to present thoughts and ideas that she know I would find challenging.

Deal breaker:
lack of honesty in any of the above.
manipulative personality
Withholding information that is necessary for life changing decisions.

[Anonymous]

Pros: desire to be not-single
Libido
Sense of humor
Cute appearance.
Willingness to settle
Willingness to make time

Cons:
Obesity
Drama

[Anonymous]

Good: Loyal, smart, industrious, kind, healthy libido and sexual confidence.

Bad: Untrustworthy, narcissism, cruelty, laziness, asexuality.

[Anonymous]

Deal Maker
Smarts
Sense of humor
Looks
Active libido
Ambition

Deal Breaker
None of the above
Crummy family
Wasteful spender

[Anonymous]

Deal breakers

Selfish/self centered
Any form of substance abuse
Selfish/self centered
Unresolved personal or psychological issues
Selfish/self centered
Obesity
Low maintenance

Deal makers

Sense of humor
Giving nature
Great attitude about life and toward others
Can be demanding in a good way
Easily shares intimacies

[Anonymous]

Deal Maker

Above average physical attractiveness
Above average intelligence, curiosity, sense of adventure/spontaneity
Similar Philosophy on money, family, work/life balance and gender roles, religion


Deal Breaker

Below average physical attractiveness
Below average intelligence
Materialism/self-centered/elitist
Unstable/Overly emotional

[Anonymous]

Deal maker:
Smart, funny, attractive

Deal breaker
Fat

[Anonymous]

Deal breaker:

Overly judgmental
Humorless
Not physically attractive for whatever reason (fat, not my type, etc.)
Overly partisan/extreme about political/culture stuff

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Deal breaker:

Overly judgmental
Humorless
Not physically attractive for whatever reason (fat, not my type, etc.)
Overly partisan/extreme about political/culture stuff

Another one:
Unrealistic expectations about money and status (present and future)

[Anonymous]

I noticed the same person is posting multiple posts lol.

Same one that started the thread no doubt.

[Anonymous]

I find it hilarious that on the one hand y'all don't want judgmental women, but on the other hand, "no fat chicks". Thanks for the lols.