s/o: MEN what are the dealbreakers and dealmakers for you?
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Anonymous
Just to add to my last comment, I would never advertise this to anyone. The man would have to find this out after spending quality time with me. |
Anonymous
Your summary is bullshit. |
Anonymous
OK cool girl. |
Anonymous
This must be a post by a woman. I am not trying to be cool. I am just being myself. Think what you want. |
Anonymous
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Maker:
Smart/educated Confident Independant Good relationship with her Father Likes guns, owns her own guns Breaker: Drinker/Drugs Immature Shallow Not outdoorsy Doesn't want family |
Anonymous
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Deal maker: frequent sex
Deal breaker: overweight Everything else is negotiable. |
Anonymous
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Deal makers:
Gets naked every once in a while Independent Likes to travel Fit Enjoys a good cocktail Witty Deal Breakers: Creates drama Disrespectful to others Hates my music (doesn't need to like it, just tolerate it) Has any issue with the fact that my kids are the center of my universe Doesn't like my dog |
Anonymous
| Dealbreaker: "me, me, me, I, I, I." Sadly so common ... |
Anonymous
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Maker:
Sense of Humor Intelligence Education Understands infield fly rule Wants kids Breaker: Believes in astrology Religious Conservative Substance Abuse Lying Excessive spending Can not have the same genetic defects I have -- too much risk to offspring. That include BRCA1, Familial High Cholesterol. |
Anonymous
I don't read it that way. Men tend to need more sexual intimacy and women more emotional intimacy so the deal makers and deal breakers reflect that. There are many characteristics in these posts that are similar to the womens as well...people are just ignoring them to focus on the physical / sexual ones. |
Anonymous
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My first wife cheated multiple times and so my deal makers/breakers were influenced by that relationship.
Makers: Had to share my enthusiasm for lifelong fitness. Had to be faithful. Had to be a kind person Funny and fun to hang out with Positive Breakers: Fat Any kind of substance abuse I think my wants were pretty simple. I found a woman who's so much more than all of these and we've been together happily for 16 years. |
Anonymous
You've got it backwards. That's what women want. Funny how it apparently seems unrealistic to you when you mistakenly assume that's what men want. |
Anonymous
It's not judgmental to prefer someone to whom you are actually physically attracted. |
Anonymous
Really? Racist would be negotiable. Drug addict would be negotiable? Violent toward her children and partner is negotiable? But God forbid she wear a size 14. |
Anonymous
This should be on bumper stickers, taught in schools. This should be a banner on the dating site page that every woman sees when she logs in. |