Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am sitting in a resort area sad and crying. How do you stop the negative thoughts, you are a little person, you are a stupid person, you have blown any opportunity, you should just end it end it. Over and over I can’t get any peace. My kids are depressed and f’cked Up, my wife is a drunk and trying to divorce . My parents are gone and siblings are worthless. And even now when I “run” away I can not get peace.

Hugs. I know how you feel, I’ve been there.

What helped me most was learning to take care of my own needs. Hit the gym, work on your career, stop worrying about your wife. Do things that will improve your self-esteem. Go to Al-Anon and therapy. Flirt with other women. Pursue hobbies. Focus on the things you can change- yourself- rather than they people that you can’t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am sitting in a resort area sad and crying. How do you stop the negative thoughts, you are a little person, you are a stupid person, you have blown any opportunity, you should just end it end it. Over and over I can’t get any peace. My kids are depressed and f’cked Up, my wife is a drunk and trying to divorce . My parents are gone and siblings are worthless. And even now when I “run” away I can not get peace.

Hugs. I know how you feel, I’ve been there.

What helped me most was learning to take care of my own needs. Hit the gym, work on your career, stop worrying about your wife. Do things that will improve your self-esteem. Go to Al-Anon and therapy. Flirt with other women. Pursue hobbies. Focus on the things you can change- yourself- rather than they people that you can’t.

+1

don't end it. let the drunk wife divorce you. your kids will be fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I fantasize about being a NFL cheerleader.

Really? What’s the lure of being a “gratuitous” sex symbol on the sidelines. NFL Cheerleaders don’t get paid for practice or field time, yet are forced to comply with an arduous lifestyle of high maintenance hair, nails, gym, dance practice and special appearances for little compensation. Cheerleaders agree to a no fraternatization policy with the players. What’s the attraction?

My sister-in-law was a Ravens Cheerleader, it did nothing to advance her career, and when she gained a few pounds on vacation she was shamed by her team mates. She went on to say how the cheerleader management team make all cheerleaders try-out every year for the squad.

Agree. NFL cheerleaders are a symptom of the misogynist culture of the NFL. Can't they pay their F'in cheerleaders???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I fantasize about being a NFL cheerleader.

M or F?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That should have said “I’d only get a nanny to watch the kids...so that I could have time to f— my husband loudly... that’s if I had a husband... and if I weren’t a sad broken XW.

I miss f—-g loudly.

I can help with that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am sitting in a resort area sad and crying. How do you stop the negative thoughts, you are a little person, you are a stupid person, you have blown any opportunity, you should just end it end it. Over and over I can’t get any peace. My kids are depressed and f’cked Up, my wife is a drunk and trying to divorce . My parents are gone and siblings are worthless. And even now when I “run” away I can not get peace.

Have an affair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I asked, very clearly, where I can go to make dooty. And no one answered. Now what?

What the hell is dooty?

Have you never seen Caddyshack?

[Anonymous]

NP here. We have an addict family member who gets sent to detox each time he binges and is in bad shape. It has devastated my family, because we have elderly parents with dementia and mobility issues who are codependent with this person. I no longer want to help and force him to rehab. If this means that he drinks and dies in the next several months then so be it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I asked, very clearly, where I can go to make dooty. And no one answered. Now what?

What the hell is dooty?

Have you never seen Caddyshack?

Glad to see you find the predicament humorous. Still, no answer, no info offered.

[Anonymous]

I wished I could sleep with my College Career Counselor. She is effortlessly beautiful and I get turned on thinking about her beautiful green eyes. We are still in touch purely on a professional basis ever since I graduated, and we always maintained a cordial and appropriate faculty-student relationship but if only...

[Anonymous]

Spouse and I are in therapy. But it's probably not going to workout. Initially, I was optimistic, thinking a hand full of sessions would clear it all up. But now I'm starting to realize that we've ignored the signs for far too long. And I don't want to leave, but I am doing us all a disservice by staying. This is an odd, uncomfortable feeling. We're in the middle of buying a new house...but I'm having second thoughts. We can't agree on anything. I would rather ignore him than speak to him because I know I'd say things that are unforgivable.

[Anonymous]

I only come on DCUM when I am in a sexless state. I cant sleep at all without it. dammit.

[Anonymous]

My employee applied for a job that would make her my boss, and I am working behind the scenes to undermine her chances.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My employee applied for a job that would make her my boss, and I am working behind the scenes to undermine her chances.

I truly believe people reap what they sow.

[Anonymous]

You’ll look like an arse for blocking her