Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

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Anonymous wrote:My son caused me a lot of trouble and I hate him for it.
Won’t do anything to him of course but am very very bitter about it. Basically every opportunity for camp and other childcare - I will take from now on.

The woman that slapped her kid?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have spent an inordinate amount of time cyberstalking a previous FWB and his entire family and his new girlfriend's entire family. I am insane.

What makes him worth stalking? Was he really good or something?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't feel bad when grandparents of adults die.

Same! I only met 1/4 of my grandparents and was still very young when that one passed, so I think I’m a way I feel little pangs or resentment that these 40 and 50 year old adults had the chance to develop those relationships with their grandparents. I can still be understanding of their grief, and I try, but it’s hard to feel truly empathetic esp given the natural course of things.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't feel bad when grandparents of adults die.

Same! I only met 1/4 of my grandparents and was still very young when that one passed, so I think I’m a way I feel little pangs or resentment that these 40 and 50 year old adults had the chance to develop those relationships with their grandparents. I can still be understanding of their grief, and I try, but it’s hard to feel truly empathetic esp given the natural course of things.

I don't feel bad when parents of adults die.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have spent an inordinate amount of time cyberstalking a previous FWB and his entire family and his new girlfriend's entire family. I am insane.

What makes him worth stalking? Was he really good or something?

Great sex and now unavailable. We want what we can’t have right? He is really nothing special though as a person and would be a horrible husband or partner. Twice divorced,cheated, narcissist, etc. so dumb I know!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't feel bad when grandparents of adults die.

Same! I only met 1/4 of my grandparents and was still very young when that one passed, so I think I’m a way I feel little pangs or resentment that these 40 and 50 year old adults had the chance to develop those relationships with their grandparents. I can still be understanding of their grief, and I try, but it’s hard to feel truly empathetic esp given the natural course of things.

I don't feel bad when parents of adults die.

You are horrible.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have spent an inordinate amount of time cyberstalking a previous FWB and his entire family and his new girlfriend's entire family. I am insane.

What makes him worth stalking? Was he really good or something?

Great sex and now unavailable. We want what we can’t have right? He is really nothing special though as a person and would be a horrible husband or partner. Twice divorced,cheated, narcissist, etc. so dumb I know!

If he’s a narcisist he can’t care that much about your needs. What makes him so good in bed?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have spent an inordinate amount of time cyberstalking a previous FWB and his entire family and his new girlfriend's entire family. I am insane.

What makes him worth stalking? Was he really good or something?

Great sex and now unavailable. We want what we can’t have right? He is really nothing special though as a person and would be a horrible husband or partner. Twice divorced,cheated, narcissist, etc. so dumb I know!

If he’s a narcisist he can’t care that much about your needs. What makes him so good in bed?

Ok well that's an interesting question and good point. He is great in bed because he was COMPLETELY uninhibited and VERY experienced. Also easy on the eyes and in good shape so had lasting power and could go for multiple rounds. He knows a woman's body well and isn't afraid of doing things other men might shy away from (because he's done everything!). I still say he's a narcissist (not based on bedroom performance) because his concern for my enjoyment wasn't about me, but about validating his own sexual prowess.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have spent an inordinate amount of time cyberstalking a previous FWB and his entire family and his new girlfriend's entire family. I am insane.

What makes him worth stalking? Was he really good or something?

Great sex and now unavailable. We want what we can’t have right? He is really nothing special though as a person and would be a horrible husband or partner. Twice divorced,cheated, narcissist, etc. so dumb I know!

If he’s a narcisist he can’t care that much about your needs. What makes him so good in bed?

Ok well that's an interesting question and good point. He is great in bed because he was COMPLETELY uninhibited and VERY experienced. Also easy on the eyes and in good shape so had lasting power and could go for multiple rounds. He knows a woman's body well and isn't afraid of doing things other men might shy away from (because he's done everything!). I still say he's a narcissist (not based on bedroom performance) because his concern for my enjoyment wasn't about me, but about validating his own sexual prowess.

Sounds like someone I dated. He was also LARGE downstairs and the combination of that and his skills was pretty awesome.

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Anonymous wrote:I have spent an inordinate amount of time cyberstalking a previous FWB and his entire family and his new girlfriend's entire family. I am insane.

What makes him worth stalking? Was he really good or something?

Great sex and now unavailable. We want what we can’t have right? He is really nothing special though as a person and would be a horrible husband or partner. Twice divorced,cheated, narcissist, etc. so dumb I know!

If he’s a narcisist he can’t care that much about your needs. What makes him so good in bed?

Ok well that's an interesting question and good point. He is great in bed because he was COMPLETELY uninhibited and VERY experienced. Also easy on the eyes and in good shape so had lasting power and could go for multiple rounds. He knows a woman's body well and isn't afraid of doing things other men might shy away from (because he's done everything!). I still say he's a narcissist (not based on bedroom performance) because his concern for my enjoyment wasn't about me, but about validating his own sexual prowess.

Sounds like someone I dated. He was also LARGE downstairs and the combination of that and his skills was pretty awesome.

Sounds awesome. Interestingly this guy was not super well-endowed (but adequate), but that was almost better because an&* was super easy. Oh man do I miss banging this guy. So pissed his GF gets him full-time (until he tires of her and starts cheating again!).

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Anonymous wrote:I have spent an inordinate amount of time cyberstalking a previous FWB and his entire family and his new girlfriend's entire family. I am insane.

What makes him worth stalking? Was he really good or something?

Great sex and now unavailable. We want what we can’t have right? He is really nothing special though as a person and would be a horrible husband or partner. Twice divorced,cheated, narcissist, etc. so dumb I know!

If he’s a narcisist he can’t care that much about your needs. What makes him so good in bed?

Ok well that's an interesting question and good point. He is great in bed because he was COMPLETELY uninhibited and VERY experienced. Also easy on the eyes and in good shape so had lasting power and could go for multiple rounds. He knows a woman's body well and isn't afraid of doing things other men might shy away from (because he's done everything!). I still say he's a narcissist (not based on bedroom performance) because his concern for my enjoyment wasn't about me, but about validating his own sexual

Sounds like someone I dated. He was also LARGE downstairs and the combination of that and his skills was pretty awesome.

Sounds awesome. Interestingly this guy was not super well-endowed (but adequate), but that was almost better because an&* was super easy. Oh man do I miss banging this guy. So pissed his GF gets him full-time (until he tires of her and starts cheating again!).

Well there was no way I would have considered an*l with him. But he defintely seemed to validate his prowess by making me O over and over and over. He also seemed to like taking me in places that were risky - up against my car in a parking garage, on a tent cot under the stars while camping, etc.

Are you going to try and get together with him?

[Anonymous]

They sound like brothers from another mother. No he blew me off when GF became more serious. He declined a FB friend request which told me everything I need to know! He was still sleeping with me when he and GF became exclusive so I know he’s afraid she’ll find out. I’ll just have to look elsewhere for mind blowing sex! Maybe I can find your former guy lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I really want to sleep with my new personal trainer ...

It’s been a month..any update on this one? I think a lot of us have been there but it’s stayed a fantasy for me!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I really want to sleep with my new personal trainer ...

It’s been a month..any update on this one? I think a lot of us have been there but it’s stayed a fantasy for me!

Sage advice for consideration:

Your "new" personal trainer and "good idea" is someone else's old trainer and "bad idea"... Be careful, use condoms.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate my husband’s fat body. Almost every night I have dreams about running my hands and mouth along the bodies of men with muscles and six packs (those are the dreams safe for non-explicit, anyway). It depresses me that I can never do that again in real life.

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The only way I enjoy sex with him is to visualize a fantasy about a very attractive petite young girl having sex with a fat older man. (I'm a size 2).