Confessions

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Anonymous wrote: Not if you know how to do it, no. If you're planning on just putting something up there, it'll hurt as hell. You gotta have the right technique.

OMG, I love anal, as does my rather straight-laced husband. In fact, it drives him just about wild. We would do it way more often but I hate the, um, after effect. Anyway around that?

The after effect is minimized if he wears a condom or withdraws before c***ing.

Yeah, that is the only solution I can come up with as well and I just can't do that to him... Right now he just thinks it is something we reserved for special occasions.

Yeah, it does seem mean, but I think it's even worse to keep from doing it just because of the after effect. Have him chose: rubber on or only on special occasions?

Naive question here, but what's the after effect? I have anal sex and have never noticed any after effects. You mean, wanting to shit, or actually doing so??

I didn't want to be so graphic, but there is no way around it. If the guy comes inside, you have a gooey dripping effect afterwards. It's not something you can hold because it's just his... "liquid" coming out and it can be quite uncomfortable.

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But don't you have this too when you have sex the 'normal' way?

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Anonymous wrote:But don't you have this too when you have sex the 'normal' way?

Yes, but it isn't half crap and half semen. It gives a whole new meaning to "Hersey squirts" (juvenile but accurate!).

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OK, i get it now!

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I confess I've never been so graphic on a thread before.

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Anonymous wrote:But don't you have this too when you have sex the 'normal' way?

Yes, but it isn't half crap and half semen. It gives a whole new meaning to "Hersey squirts" (juvenile but accurate!).

Otherwise known as "Santorum" to any Savage Love readers out there...

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Anonymous wrote:I have some relatives who did a really bad thing. And later they had a horribly disabled child. And sometimes I think they certainly got what they deserved.

Me too. A woman I work with is the worst-- scheming, lying, cold and racist-- and she had a damaged baby at the same time as my beautiful, bright child was born. It's the first time I ever believed in karma. Though I feel terrible for her child.

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Anonymous wrote:I have some relatives who did a really bad thing. And later they had a horribly disabled child. And sometimes I think they certainly got what they deserved.

Me too. A woman I work with is the worst-- scheming, lying, cold and racist-- and she had a damaged baby at the same time as my beautiful, bright child was born. It's the first time I ever believed in karma. Though I feel terrible for her child.

WTF? A damaged baby? Vs. your beautiful bright child? Geez, you just made me lose all faith in karma.

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Anonymous wrote:I have some relatives who did a really bad thing. And later they had a horribly disabled child. And sometimes I think they certainly got what they deserved.

Me too. A woman I work with is the worst-- scheming, lying, cold and racist-- and she had a damaged baby at the same time as my beautiful, bright child was born. It's the first time I ever believed in karma. Though I feel terrible for her child.

Did your coworker become a better person after she had her baby?

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Anonymous wrote:I have some relatives who did a really bad thing. And later they had a horribly disabled child. And sometimes I think they certainly got what they deserved.

Me too. A woman I work with is the worst-- scheming, lying, cold and racist-- and she had a damaged baby at the same time as my beautiful, bright child was born. It's the first time I ever believed in karma. Though I feel terrible for her child.

Did your coworker become a better person after she had her baby?

Got worse, in fact. I had hoped that maybe we could could bond over the parenthood experience. But no.

As for "damaged" I don't know what's wrong with the child so I can't be more accurate. I don't know if the disabilities are congenital or birth-related or something else. All I know is that the child doesn't hit any developmental milestones anywhere near on time (or at all, in some cases), and the comparison to my same-aged child is quite painful to witness. I feel so sad for that baby.

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I'm a nanny and I confess I've got tons of UTIs because my DB works from home and I can't go to the bathroom when he's home. I think he'll hear me, that I'll fart and he'll laugh or something bizarre like that. I know it's stupid and I should get over it, and I've tried, but I fail every time.

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Anonymous wrote:I have some relatives who did a really bad thing. And later they had a horribly disabled child. And sometimes I think they certainly got what they deserved.

Me too. A woman I work with is the worst-- scheming, lying, cold and racist-- and she had a damaged baby at the same time as my beautiful, bright child was born. It's the first time I ever believed in karma. Though I feel terrible for her child.

Did your coworker become a better person after she had her baby?

Got worse, in fact. I had hoped that maybe we could could bond over the parenthood experience. But no.

As for "damaged" I don't know what's wrong with the child so I can't be more accurate. I don't know if the disabilities are congenital or birth-related or something else. All I know is that the child doesn't hit any developmental milestones anywhere near on time (or at all, in some cases), and the comparison to my same-aged child is quite painful to witness. I feel so sad for that baby.

That baby isn't the only one I feel sorry for.