Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It must have been quite alarming for those around her to watch her descent into madness and various addictions. Posts here and elsewhere have described increasingly erratic behavior, issues with hygiene, etc. It is good that the children were gotten out of her care.

That 2019 conviction really was a missed opportunity.

Had she not had a trust this is the kind of person who could end up becoming homeless.

+1 homeless and/or killed by a pickup.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been quite alarming for those around her to watch her descent into madness and various addictions. Posts here and elsewhere have described increasingly erratic behavior, issues with hygiene, etc. It is good that the children were gotten out of her care.

That 2019 conviction really was a missed opportunity.

Had she not had a trust this is the kind of person who could end up becoming homeless.

+1 homeless and/or killed by a pickup.

What exactly are issues with hygiene? It's an odd comment.

[Anonymous]

https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/mental-illness-can-impact-hygiene

https://morethanrehab.com/2020/09/03/hygiene-and-drug-use-why-does-use-cause-a-lack-of-care/

People who say they know her described a change in her personal grooming and appearance, could be due to a variety of things but is a sign that warrants concern.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Her park arrest was in 2019 and he didn’t file for divorce until May 2020. In my opinion there is no way you can be married to someone this crazy and not know or at least suspect something is very off. Maybe he turned a blind eye and stayed for the money and legal connections and only filed for divorce when she became a liability to his career. Either way he needs to be looked into. If nothing else this seriously calls into question his judgment.

Virginia requires separation of one. year. The divorce was likely exactly a year after her park arrest.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Her park arrest was in 2019 and he didn’t file for divorce until May 2020. In my opinion there is no way you can be married to someone this crazy and not know or at least suspect something is very off. Maybe he turned a blind eye and stayed for the money and legal connections and only filed for divorce when she became a liability to his career. Either way he needs to be looked into. If nothing else this seriously calls into question his judgment.

Virginia requires separation of one. year. The divorce was likely exactly a year after her park arrest.

Seems likely.

[Anonymous]

This creature must spend the rest of her life behind bars.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been quite alarming for those around her to watch her descent into madness and various addictions. Posts here and elsewhere have described increasingly erratic behavior, issues with hygiene, etc. It is good that the children were gotten out of her care.

That 2019 conviction really was a missed opportunity.

Had she not had a trust this is the kind of person who could end up becoming homeless.

+1 homeless and/or killed by a pickup.

What exactly are issues with hygiene? It's an odd comment.

Her feet - OMG - were like something you would imagine belonging to a creature from another planet. I’m at a loss for words just thinking about how she let them get to that state. Many on this blog have warned against reading the court documents of this case because they are so disturbing; well let me tell you, seeing her feet would scar you! And that is just one example!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Someone on this board must work for CNN or WaPo. Let’s get on this people.

This thread of the discussion is getting boring. It's too extreme. Many wish they had not read the charging docs or even the article. It's something people will avoid tuning in to see and that children might see it, even with warnings. Won't get media attention.

Those thinking her family could sue media, on what grounds? The facts are laid out by the FBI not an investigative reporter.

Crimes against children are rarely covered, this one is likely to remain that way.

Raising awareness could be a benefit, maybe a dateline type story once she is convicted.

I agree that the details are too awful to read. I did not read the charging documents myself. But a story with her name, very general description of the charges, organizations she volunteered with, her law firm/judge connections, etc. are absolutely newsworthy. Nobody wanted to read the details of the Mom who killed her children in Massachusetts but that was plastered all over the news.
The lack of news attention is extremely suspicious and a disservice to victims who might be out there and would potentially have a lawsuit against her family if they covered for her behavior.

In three of the articles that I found, her name was spelled incorrectly... one letter was omitted, making her name look totally different.

One single letter missing may seem like an innocent error, however I imagine that was done intentionally at the behest of her family, so they wouldn't be associated with this nightmare.
The one letter omitted, was probably a means to throw any news/crime journalists off the scent, as her name wouldn't match any of there's.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Her park arrest was in 2019 and he didn’t file for divorce until May 2020. In my opinion there is no way you can be married to someone this crazy and not know or at least suspect something is very off. Maybe he turned a blind eye and stayed for the money and legal connections and only filed for divorce when she became a liability to his career. Either way he needs to be looked into. If nothing else this seriously calls into question his judgment.

I'm pretty sure they separated in 2018, and in Virginia, if you have minor children, you have to be separated from your spouse for one year to get a no-fault divorce. At some point during their separation, she moved in with her parents in Richmond. That may have been around the time of her Oct. 2019 park incident since that took place in Chesterfield.

Joel (ex-H) filed for divorce in May 2020, but keep in mind the whole world basically shut down in March 2020, so I'm sure that led to a delay in filing and a delay in it being processed. Also, think back to what all of us were doing in 2020 - just trying to survive and get our kids through school so I can only imagine how he felt dealing with his girls and a crazy EHH.
And I believe he got engaged to his current wife in late 2021 and remarried in 2022.

I, regrettably, read the Statement of Facts doc on the Court Listener site because I know her and was just so in shock when I heard this story. It was all so very disturbing, but one of several things that stood out to me was this: Additionally, the website provided IP logs spanning from February 14, 2020, through February 26, 2023.

I wonder if the Feb. 14, 2020, date was the date she created the account on the site?? That's almost 3 years prior to her being caught, so who knows what kind of interaction she was having with others on that site over that time period. I bet there is a serious investigation going on right now to try to uncover so much more.

I can't find the documentation that I read, but it was MUCH longer & far more detailed with dates than the statement of facts.

It provided all of the information received from Google, as well as the f€tish website (her user name on the site, etc) in order to identify her.

I specifically remember this, she originally created her account on that site in 2018.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It must have been quite alarming for those around her to watch her descent into madness and various addictions. Posts here and elsewhere have described increasingly erratic behavior, issues with hygiene, etc. It is good that the children were gotten out of her care.

That 2019 conviction really was a missed opportunity.

Had she not had a trust this is the kind of person who could end up becoming homeless.

+1 homeless and/or killed by a pickup.

What exactly are issues with hygiene? It's an odd comment.

Her feet - OMG - were like something you would imagine belonging to a creature from another planet. I’m at a loss for words just thinking about how she let them get to that state. Many on this blog have warned against reading the court documents of this case because they are so disturbing; well let me tell you, seeing her feet would scar you! And that is just one example!

This comforts me in some ways as it indicates that there other parents were well aware she had major issues and probably weren’t letting her host play dates and she wasn’t volunteering at school at that point. It also confirms my past bias that female abusers follow very different patterns than male abusers and your typical mom living a boring mom life is extremely low risk for CSA.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been quite alarming for those around her to watch her descent into madness and various addictions. Posts here and elsewhere have described increasingly erratic behavior, issues with hygiene, etc. It is good that the children were gotten out of her care.

That 2019 conviction really was a missed opportunity.

Had she not had a trust this is the kind of person who could end up becoming homeless.

+1 homeless and/or killed by a pickup.

What exactly are issues with hygiene? It's an odd comment.

Her feet - OMG - were like something you would imagine belonging to a creature from another planet. I’m at a loss for words just thinking about how she let them get to that state. Many on this blog have warned against reading the court documents of this case because they are so disturbing; well let me tell you, seeing her feet would scar you! And that is just one example!

This comforts me in some ways as it indicates that there other parents were well aware she had major issues and probably weren’t letting her host play dates and she wasn’t volunteering at school at that point. It also confirms my past bias that female abusers follow very different patterns than male abusers and your typical mom living a boring mom life is extremely low risk for CSA.

I cannot bring myself to read the complaint, but are her feet pictured? Does Pp have knowledge of her feet? I’m having a hard time even imagine how bad feet could be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not to go back to an old point but how does responding to a specific picture request confirm that one is “safe” and presumably not LE. I don’t totally understand this.

because the pose was odd. it is so specific, it would be almost impossible to find elsewhere on the internet.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Her park arrest was in 2019 and he didn’t file for divorce until May 2020. In my opinion there is no way you can be married to someone this crazy and not know or at least suspect something is very off. Maybe he turned a blind eye and stayed for the money and legal connections and only filed for divorce when she became a liability to his career. Either way he needs to be looked into. If nothing else this seriously calls into question his judgment.

I'm pretty sure they separated in 2018, and in Virginia, if you have minor children, you have to be separated from your spouse for one year to get a no-fault divorce. At some point during their separation, she moved in with her parents in Richmond. That may have been around the time of her Oct. 2019 park incident since that took place in Chesterfield.

Joel (ex-H) filed for divorce in May 2020, but keep in mind the whole world basically shut down in March 2020, so I'm sure that led to a delay in filing and a delay in it being processed. Also, think back to what all of us were doing in 2020 - just trying to survive and get our kids through school so I can only imagine how he felt dealing with his girls and a crazy EHH.
And I believe he got engaged to his current wife in late 2021 and remarried in 2022.

I, regrettably, read the Statement of Facts doc on the Court Listener site because I know her and was just so in shock when I heard this story. It was all so very disturbing, but one of several things that stood out to me was this: Additionally, the website provided IP logs spanning from February 14, 2020, through February 26, 2023.

I wonder if the Feb. 14, 2020, date was the date she created the account on the site?? That's almost 3 years prior to her being caught, so who knows what kind of interaction she was having with others on that site over that time period. I bet there is a serious investigation going on right now to try to uncover so much more.

I can't find the documentation that I read, but it was MUCH longer & far more detailed with dates than the statement of facts.

It provided all of the information received from Google, as well as the f€tish website (her user name on the site, etc) in order to identify her.

I specifically remember this, she originally created her account on that site in 2018.

It's almost like a psychotic break or something, just an accelerating descent into utter depravity.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been quite alarming for those around her to watch her descent into madness and various addictions. Posts here and elsewhere have described increasingly erratic behavior, issues with hygiene, etc. It is good that the children were gotten out of her care.

That 2019 conviction really was a missed opportunity.

Had she not had a trust this is the kind of person who could end up becoming homeless.

+1 homeless and/or killed by a pickup.

What exactly are issues with hygiene? It's an odd comment.

Her feet - OMG - were like something you would imagine belonging to a creature from another planet. I’m at a loss for words just thinking about how she let them get to that state. Many on this blog have warned against reading the court documents of this case because they are so disturbing; well let me tell you, seeing her feet would scar you! And that is just one example!

Is this a joke?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It must have been quite alarming for those around her to watch her descent into madness and various addictions. Posts here and elsewhere have described increasingly erratic behavior, issues with hygiene, etc. It is good that the children were gotten out of her care.

That 2019 conviction really was a missed opportunity.

Had she not had a trust this is the kind of person who could end up becoming homeless.

+1 homeless and/or killed by a pickup.

What exactly are issues with hygiene? It's an odd comment.

Her feet - OMG - were like something you would imagine belonging to a creature from another planet. I’m at a loss for words just thinking about how she let them get to that state. Many on this blog have warned against reading the court documents of this case because they are so disturbing; well let me tell you, seeing her feet would scar you! And that is just one example!

This comforts me in some ways as it indicates that there other parents were well aware she had major issues and probably weren’t letting her host play dates and she wasn’t volunteering at school at that point. It also confirms my past bias that female abusers follow very different patterns than male abusers and your typical mom living a boring mom life is extremely low risk for CSA.

I cannot bring myself to read the complaint, but are her feet pictured? Does Pp have knowledge of her feet? I’m having a hard time even imagine how bad feet could be.

I think she was volunteering at their school, at church, hosting playdates in 2018. That is the date on a lot of FB photos. The family was intact for part of that year?

Is the feet post some kind of fetish joke?