Man asked woman to leash her dog in a public park -- she called the police on him

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sure, it's not possible at all that he was gaslighting her. He could have threatened her in stronger terms and then, when she started to freak out, start recording and pretend to be Mr. Reasonable Birdwatcher.

I don't care who gets nauseated by those who allow for the possibility of more to this story. There are too many people ready to judge others based on snippets of videos snapped on a cell phone. And why not do it - the lemmings are always ready to spring into action to ruin someone's life in the name of racial justice. At least she's a grown up and not a kid, but still.

He was head of the Harvard ornithological society, and an editor for Marvel comics. You really think this is a threatening guy who's sneakily threatening hysterical white women whenever he gets the chance?!

And almost 60 years old. There is always more to the story, but what she did was wrong. If she wasn't racist more people may be interested in the rest of the story. She is paying for her actions. I hope she learns from this and bounces back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Y'all gonna be so mad when she gets her own show on OAN.

No we won't because no one watches OAN but Putin and Trump supporters.

[Anonymous]

Just watched the video. If she were truly being threatened or feared for her life she wouldn't be standing there yelling at him. The only one in danger here was that poor dog who she practically choked to death on it's own collar. What a nut job.

I don't really understand the whole dog treat thing, but it doesn't make me feel any differently about this situation. The woman is nuts, racist, a liar, and should not own any pets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sure, it's not possible at all that he was gaslighting her. He could have threatened her in stronger terms and then, when she started to freak out, start recording and pretend to be Mr. Reasonable Birdwatcher.

I don't care who gets nauseated by those who allow for the possibility of more to this story. There are too many people ready to judge others based on snippets of videos snapped on a cell phone. And why not do it - the lemmings are always ready to spring into action to ruin someone's life in the name of racial justice. At least she's a grown up and not a kid, but still.

He was head of the Harvard ornithological society, and an editor for Marvel comics. You really think this is a threatening guy who's sneakily threatening hysterical white women whenever he gets the chance?!

And almost 60 years old. There is always more to the story, but what she did was wrong. If she wasn't racist more people may be interested in the rest of the story. She is paying for her actions. I hope she learns from this and bounces back.

I don't know if I hope she learns and bounces back. I don't want to be hyperbolic - but a reasonable way of looking at this is that she tried to get this man killed, or at least punished, for looking at her wrong. It's bone chilling, and evil. It seems like there was something very wrong with her - but I don't know if it's evil wrong, or mentally ill wrong, or what. And I'm sure me being a middle aged white lady who loves dogs myself makes me MORE sympathetic to her. But what she did was really bad.

I don't know. I am generally full of compassion for people. I'm finding it hard to get past what she did there. What she tried to do.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm just checking in...has anyone changed their opinion based on any of the previous 39 pages of posts?

I didn't think so....carry on!

Yes. I now realize that racism is even more entrenched than I previously thought. Reading through this has been informative.

Agree 100%.

It seems weird that this story would be the tipping point for you. But good for you anyways.
Serious question: Are you now seeing that racism is ore entrenched than you previously thought because the perpetrator is a professional white woman from NYC instead of an underemployed white man? or a police officer?

No, my comment was really more about my experience reading the comments here and on other sites. As an African American, it has been really eye opening to read through pages and pages of relatively unfiltered comments, and to see just how hard people will push their own narratives in the face of what to me is clear data and clear conclusions. The actual incident in the park is not surprising to me at all - and that the perpetrator is a professional white woman in NYC mirrors many of my own experiences as a professional in NYC and other Mid-Atlantic cities.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just watched the video. If she were truly being threatened or feared for her life she wouldn't be standing there yelling at him. The only one in danger here was that poor dog who she practically choked to death on it's own collar. What a nut job.

I don't really understand the whole dog treat thing, but it doesn't make me feel any differently about this situation. The woman is nuts, racist, a liar, and should not own any pets.

Dog treat thing: How would you deal with unfamiliar, potentially dangerous unleashed dogs in an urban park setting ? Given the options, I think carrying dog treats is brilliant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sure, it's not possible at all that he was gaslighting her. He could have threatened her in stronger terms and then, when she started to freak out, start recording and pretend to be Mr. Reasonable Birdwatcher.

I don't care who gets nauseated by those who allow for the possibility of more to this story. There are too many people ready to judge others based on snippets of videos snapped on a cell phone. And why not do it - the lemmings are always ready to spring into action to ruin someone's life in the name of racial justice. At least she's a grown up and not a kid, but still.

I don't think you know what gaslighting is ....


Also ... people who are actually afraid don't try to physically encroach on the person they're afraid of. They may lash out verbally or fight if cornered, but they don't take the fight to the person they're afraid of.

Lastly, Lady ruined her own life. If she didn't want to be called out maybe she shouldn't have tried to Carolyn Donham this guy.

[Anonymous]

Next thing you know they'll be talking about how she's such a great swimmer and how we wouldn't want to ruin her potential.

[Anonymous]

I feel kind of bad that she lost her job. Then I think about Emmett Till.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just watched the video. If she were truly being threatened or feared for her life she wouldn't be standing there yelling at him. The only one in danger here was that poor dog who she practically choked to death on it's own collar. What a nut job.

I don't really understand the whole dog treat thing, but it doesn't make me feel any differently about this situation. The woman is nuts, racist, a liar, and should not own any pets.

Apparently entitled dog owners have a habit of letting their dogs run off leash and tear up this bird habitat conservation area. As an avid bird watcher, he was used to encountering off leash dogs.

As a parent of a child who was attacked by an off leash terrier, I have to admit that's a bit of a hot button issue for me. I don't blame him for being both prepared and ready to call out these entitled dog owners.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Both were nuts. He was threatening her by videoing her for no reason. That dog wasn't bothering anyone and I'm scared of dogs. There was no reason for him to approach her and video it so he was setting up the situation and zero respect for him. She handled it very badly but has a right to feel threatened by recording her.

If your in public you can be recorded. You have no right to privacy in public.

And she was damaging the Ramble by disregarding the law and letting her dog off leash. She was in the wrong from the beginning and she knew it. He called her out for a really good reason ... SMDH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sure, it's not possible at all that he was gaslighting her. He could have threatened her in stronger terms and then, when she started to freak out, start recording and pretend to be Mr. Reasonable Birdwatcher.

I don't care who gets nauseated by those who allow for the possibility of more to this story. There are too many people ready to judge others based on snippets of videos snapped on a cell phone. And why not do it - the lemmings are always ready to spring into action to ruin someone's life in the name of racial justice. At least she's a grown up and not a kid, but still.

He was head of the Harvard ornithological society, and an editor for Marvel comics. You really think this is a threatening guy who's sneakily threatening hysterical white women whenever he gets the chance?!

I get what you’re doing saying these things about him because they are good qualities and complimentary, but he doesn’t need to be Harvard educated or president of Audubon or whatever to not have this happen to him. It’s actually dangerous because it implies that “model” Black men should expect better treatment than others. A Black man not educated at Harvard or not an ornithologist also would not deserve this. Black lives matter no matter what.

Many white people need the biographical narrative to actually believe it was racism. Many other white people appreciate the narrative, so they can pivot their ugly arguments to details like insidious doggie treats.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just watched the video. If she were truly being threatened or feared for her life she wouldn't be standing there yelling at him. The only one in danger here was that poor dog who she practically choked to death on it's own collar. What a nut job.

I don't really understand the whole dog treat thing, but it doesn't make me feel any differently about this situation. The woman is nuts, racist, a liar, and should not own any pets.

Dog treat thing: How would you deal with unfamiliar, potentially dangerous unleashed dogs in an urban park setting ? Given the options, I think carrying dog treats is brilliant.

I don't understand him saying "Look, if you're going to do what you want, I'm going to do what I want, but you're not going to like it." When giving the dog a treat. It's a strange thing to say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just watched the video. If she were truly being threatened or feared for her life she wouldn't be standing there yelling at him. The only one in danger here was that poor dog who she practically choked to death on it's own collar. What a nut job.

I don't really understand the whole dog treat thing, but it doesn't make me feel any differently about this situation. The woman is nuts, racist, a liar, and should not own any pets.

Dog treat thing: How would you deal with unfamiliar, potentially dangerous unleashed dogs in an urban park setting ? Given the options, I think carrying dog treats is brilliant.

I don't understand him saying "Look, if you're going to do what you want, I'm going to do what I want, but you're not going to like it." When giving the dog a treat. It's a strange thing to say.

Maybe was going to grab her unleashed dog and remove it from the Ramble. Maybe call animal control. An unleashed dog is a hazard.

[Anonymous]

43 pages of Karen and only 3 pages on the poor man that was choked to death on camera. Sad.