I hate a mean kid.
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Anonymous
| Op, you have issues. Serious ones. Don’t project these onto your poor child. At this age they may be best friends in a week and you will feel ridiculous because you are in fact being ridiculous. |
Anonymous
| And my child has serious SNs and social issues. I don’t blame the other kids. That would be bizarre. |
Anonymous
I’m always torn when people say their child is being bullied by ONE kid. That exists, so the poster might be accurate, but it’s very often a case of “instigating-reacting” or “taking advantage-reacting”. |
Anonymous
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My daughter is not SN, but she has experienced some form of bullying (mostly mean girls behavior) in K (not in later years).
It was due to two specific girls that were smart, on the older side and “mean”. They would tell other girls to not play with my daughter and they would isolate her. I have no idea why, but my DD was really sad. The teachers had not noticed because sometimes they played with DD really well, but they were always the boss. Unfortunately, my daughter is always attracted to the more Alfa, cool girls in the class… there were many nice girls and boys that she could have played with and that is what I tried to do. I encouraged her to play with the nice kids instead… it worked some… Fortunately, in 1st grade she had a different group of friends tht were much nicer. Good luck to you and please remember that the “ugly” monster you are describing, is another 6 year old girl. I don’t excuse the father, but you are WAY out of line about the girl. Next time you witness something, go up to her and explain that it’s not nice to behave the way she does and that she will have no friends if she keeps behaving that way. If her father won’t teach her right from wrong, maybe “nice” people at the playground can… I guess that is NOT you. |
Anonymous
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True, it’s definitely not me, PP. I’m happy about that.
The thread just has gotten wild. I’m sorry it’s made people angry. I feel peaceful having gotten it out, and requesting the separation. The speculation and attempted burns on me and my kid, well, think what you will. Bless your hearts. |
Anonymous
Now you that you have gotten it out and it has been hopefully solved, you continue to be mean and off putting. I understand how a 6 year old can behave this way, but you? An adult? Where is YOUR empathy? You should look in the mirror before judging a little girl. How petty that you call a little girl “ugly”. I bet your are pretty old, ugly and fat yourself. I am team “mean girl” now |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
Nope, sorry. I am loving how ridiculous people like you believe you are Team Empathy. Keep it up, darling. You’ll get to a point! |
Anonymous
+1000 |
Anonymous
| Yeah, OPs behavior in this thread has made me totally question her narrative. |
Anonymous
Op, you need therapy. If your child turns out to have more issues, you’re going to need a lot of it. What other people think about you is not your business. You’re wasting an enormous amount of time loathing a 6 year old snd I promise you, nobody cares about you. |
Anonymous
| I feel like the cruel, empathy-lacking “mean girl” 6-year-old is going to grow up to be OP. |
Anonymous
This thread is a perfect of how toxic our culture has become. If the victim falls short of perfection you instantly blame her and take the bully’s side. This is no different than blaming a rape victim for wearing a short skirt or otherwise “asking for it.” Unfortunately, this attitude is asAmerican as apple pie. |
Anonymous
Oh yes, this is no different than blaming a woman for her own rape! So true. I’d characterize it more as that DCUM classic: the person who seems sympathetic at first, but gradually reveals themselves to be nuts, to the point that you question the truth of their narrative. |
Anonymous
| Whew this OP got real nuts. Meanwhile, the bullying family remain somewhere unbothered. |