Friend issue: how to deal with a copycat friend?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:but it feels stalkery.

Stop making up words. You sound like a 12 year old.

“Stalkery” is a word, it’s an adjective.

I bet you feel dumb, don’t you?

Can people stop going around with all their word rules?

It's

SUPER
SUPER
SUPER
IMMATURE
STALKERY!

SUPER

stalkery is a word, fyi

[Anonymous]

I complained to someone once about a friend copying me and the reply was, “maybe your just not that original.”

Ouch! Harsh but true in some cases.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t talk about or wear anything that you care about around her.

No, do the opposite. Talk about everything you know shouldn’t be said, and wear the worst possible style around her. Bring back galoshes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:but it feels stalkery.

Stop making up words. You sound like a 12 year old.

“Stalkery” is a word, it’s an adjective.

I bet you feel dumb, don’t you?

Can people stop going around with all their word rules?

It's

SUPER
SUPER
SUPER
IMMATURE
STALKERY!

SUPER

stalkery is a word, fyi

We don’t like it. Delete it.





/s, IRDC

[Anonymous]

This is a fuuuked up situation. Stay away. You know it is not normal.

You don’t need friends that are fukd in the head.

[Anonymous]

Just talk to her. She is probably unaware that she is copying so much and doesn’t realize it bothers you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just talk to her. She is probably unaware that she is copying so much and doesn’t realize it bothers you.

There is absolutely no graceful way to have that conversation. She would likely get defensive, deny she's doing it, and possibly flip it around and accuse you of being paranoid or controlling. Most people are not self-aware or reasonable enough to handle it well if they get called out on this behavior.