How do you deal with seeing people who hurt you out in the world?

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Anonymous wrote:Don’t get down, get even. Find subtle ways to make her life miserable. Put a dating ad on Craigslist with her phone number on it, make a fake Instagram account with her name on it. Order some inappropriate magazine subscriptions To her house. Order large pizzas to her house and make her pay for them. Think about egging her car or stealing a hub cap so they don’t match. Less is more in this situation. But you’ll have a much better outlook once YOU get away with something that affects her.

Please don't do any of this, OP. Some people like to fight and if you stoop to their level you may be giving them EXACTLY what they want. Ignoring her will give her the opposite of what she's look for and it will help you move on.

Nailed it. Definitely ignore, OP. It will make them upset, but let's face it, anything (insert arbitrary and innocuous "chosen" person here) does is going to send crazy over the edge. Like PP so eloquently put it, some people have psychiatric problems, and like to fight, they have an imaginary "score" to settle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don’t get down, get even. Find subtle ways to make her life miserable. Put a dating ad on Craigslist with her phone number on it, make a fake Instagram account with her name on it. Order some inappropriate magazine subscriptions To her house. Order large pizzas to her house and make her pay for them. Think about egging her car or stealing a hub cap so they don’t match. Less is more in this situation. But you’ll have a much better outlook once YOU get away with something that affects her.

Please don't do any of this, OP. Some people like to fight and if you stoop to their level you may be giving them EXACTLY what they want. Ignoring her will give her the opposite of what she's look for and it will help you move on.

Nailed it. Definitely ignore, OP. It will make them upset, but let's face it, anything (insert arbitrary and innocuous "chosen" person here) does is going to send crazy over the edge. Like PP so eloquently put it, some people have psychiatric problems, and like to fight, they have an imaginary "score" to settle.

Bingo! Neighbor is quite the Negative Nancy and is her mood is actually upbeat when she's fighting but miserable when people won't engage with her.

To me it's nuts, why put your energy into something like fighting when you could put that same energy into a myriad of forms of self improvement?

Don't move, OP, just put your energy into moving on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:We had a very serious situation with toxic neighbors in our previous neighborhood where we had built our dream home. All I will say is that as the years have passed, I have witnessed Karma take a huge bite in awful ways at the horrible people. Karma is real. If you have been wronged, you don't need to do anything. Aside from that, there is some really good advice here about dealing with the negative emotions from these situations.

I agree. I know it’s going to get that b@tch. Only so married men you can blatantly screw before it catches up to your own family.

Whut? Are you OP?