Spouse Slept through Breakfast

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it were a one time or occasional thing, I wouldn’t care. If this was common, I’d be pissed.

Agreed. 1 day a week each is reasonable (and needed?). I'm crazy in love with DH and I give him lots of grace. He gives me grace too. If I'm sleeping deeply, he keeps the kids quiet. We have toddlers and they are HARD. I love them to death but it is so much work for both of us combined.

[Anonymous]

I'd be concerned, not annoyed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would not be annoyed by that. You had time, made breakfast, and enjoyed it with your children. Unless your spouse misses breakfast frequently, what's the problem?

She is a sahm ..she has plenty of time to enjoy children. Let her sleep.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t even eat breakfast and hate having to wake up to gorge myself because someone else is imposing their personal/work schedule and diet habits in me.

Next time give a heads up the day before that you will make an elaborate breakfast for 10am tomorrow.

This! Agree. Can’t just wake up and gorge myself to please someone else. Husband sounds entitled to accolades.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Breakfast has nothing to do with it
Sleep till 10 am, that is a concern

Yes, sounds either lazy or depressed.

[Anonymous]

Maybe your spouse figured since you were holding down the fort, he or she could take some time to sleep in.

[Anonymous]

Im a SAHM and sleep until 9/9:30 every morning. If my DH made breakfast I would come...out of respect. Then I’d wash dishes and climb back into bed and drink coffee.