Sad topic but need advice: Shower for mother who has lost a baby

[Anonymous]

She can’t breath.
She can’t relax.
She can’t celebrate until she hits the milestone of her first child’d death.
Have you ever felt so wound up and then there is a moment where you let it go...she is not there yet.
She is scared.

It is lovely that you have asked.

Please don’t sprinkle or shower...she probably realizes now that it is all bullshit. She doesn’t need or want stuff. She wants her kids. The one she lost and the new one. That is sufficient.

Love to anyone who has lost a child before or after.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She can’t breath.
She can’t relax.
She can’t celebrate until she hits the milestone of her first child’d death.
Have you ever felt so wound up and then there is a moment where you let it go...she is not there yet.
She is scared.

It is lovely that you have asked.

Please don’t sprinkle or shower...she probably realizes now that it is all bullshit. She doesn’t need or want stuff. She wants her kids. The one she lost and the new one. That is sufficient.

Love to anyone who has lost a child before or after.

THIS above. You have no idea how sad and worried she is. First BD party. Even then she will be recovering. It’s a long process.