Nonexistent SIL/Aunt - am I being petty?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Life is good and peaceful, but that is not enough for me. How can I get into fights with the family and make a mess of things? Only then will I be truly happy.

x1000

[Anonymous]

I have an evil sister-in-law and totally get where you are coming from OP. Kick her out. All these precious posters can go and spoon their own in-laws now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have an evil sister-in-law and totally get where you are coming from OP. Kick her out. All these precious posters can go and spoon their own in-laws now.

Except that OP's SIL is not evil. She's just not engaged enough for OP's liking so OP wants to cut her off completely. OP is the evil one!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have an evil sister-in-law and totally get where you are coming from OP. Kick her out. All these precious posters can go and spoon their own in-laws now.

Except that OP's SIL is not evil. She's just not engaged enough for OP's liking so OP wants to cut her off completely. OP is the evil one!

Maybe I'm projecting. My sister-in-law literally calls me a horrible wife and mother every time we see her (8 years younger than me, unmarried and no children).

Eventually I just removed her from our family whatsapp as the only time she would comment was to make fun of the kids' hair/clothes or her brother.

[Anonymous]

I have a slightly different take. I think OP doesn't like herself when seen through SIL's eyes, and that's why she doesn't want to share the updates with SIL. She can be a loving mommy with the other family, but in front of SIL it doesn't fly.

OP, my advice is to be confident in who you are and forget about what SIL thinks. And yes, pushing her off the list will make major waves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Grow the eff up!
Period. Point Blank. End of Story

Are there a lot of folks out there who mistakenly think “point blank” means the same as “period” and “end of story”? I feel like it must just be one ignorant poster who concludes her posts with this hilarious “point blank period” nonsense but maybe there are many such people out there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Grow the eff up!
Period. Point Blank. End of Story

Are there a lot of folks out there who mistakenly think “point blank” means the same as “period” and “end of story”? I feel like it must just be one ignorant poster who concludes her posts with this hilarious “point blank period” nonsense but maybe there are many such people out there.

Dumba** there are periods between the words, so there are three different thoughts. You are stupid.

[Anonymous]

OP, you are so mean! Why cut her out just because she is not into your children? You just want to stir the pot and cause family drama! You have to realize that not everyone is interested In your children like you are. Everyone on this post believes you are wrong. Look in the mirror and see a really mean woman. Your poor husband.!
Why don’t you update and admit you are cruel and wrong????

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Grow the eff up!
Period. Point Blank. End of Story

Are there a lot of folks out there who mistakenly think “point blank” means the same as “period” and “end of story”? I feel like it must just be one ignorant poster who concludes her posts with this hilarious “point blank period” nonsense but maybe there are many such people out there.

Dumba** there are periods between the words, so there are three different thoughts. You are stupid.

Haha must have touched a nerve there point blank period poster!

[Anonymous]

Yes, you are petty.

You are also crazy.

When people tell stories about that one insane IL - they are talking about YOU.

[Anonymous]

I dont get why I have to be so involved with the kids of others. I barely have the bandwidth for my own kids. I have tons of nephews and nieces, my friends have kids. They share pics,I would hate for them to think of me the way you think of your in law. I just dont have the time to make anyone else the center of my life. My kids are the center of my life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s so very cute where OP feels like some FB group designation will keep her pictures private.

Don’t post ANYTHING anywhere, don’t even email it, if you aren’t cool with it on a billboard in Times Square

As for your Sil, you are defiantly ridiculous

OP here. It's not an FB group. It's WhatsApp. I don't care that she doesn't respond etc. I just don't really see why she should know so many details about them when I don't share that with others.

You want to degrade her position from family member to random stranger and nobody here is buying it. Life doesn't work that way. If you have a relative who is a murderer or pedophile then maybe you would have a point but in this case you are just being bitchy.

Preach!

[Anonymous]

Lollll no "aunts and uncles" actually care about getting daily updates about little Brayden and Kayden.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you are being petty.

[Anonymous]

Who cares if she doesn't respond, if she isn't interested in your kids, trust me, apart from the grandparents NO ONE is interested in your kids.

I find it hilarious how petty you are. You don't want her to know details about them - what details is she going to get from a whats app photo.

This is simply because you don't like her, are jealous of her and you want to cut her off from your kids.

Do it if that's what you want but know that she will roll her eyes at you and laugh about you.