When someone seems to dislike you for no obvious reason

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Anonymous wrote:I'm swim team mom and I dislike (hate is way too strong) you because of how you ask your questions. Your emails imply you think something is wrong or can be taken as complaints, but you offer little of your time to help. You sit on the sidelines with a sour puss because you're offended people don't come to you and ask you to get involved. I understand you feel left out and this is your personality, but it takes way too much effort to baby you along. I wish you'd just be like all the other parents and ask "what can I do to help?". I just feel so drained dealing with you, I'd prefer to keep my distance.

Oh, also, you speak negatively of others a lot. I can't stand gossip, especially of people I know, so I just don't want you in my life. I'm sorry if that hurts your feelings but I'll never exclude your kids because of you.


Oops, I should add, I'm not "really" swim-team mom. I'm another group mom and this is why I have a relationship like you describe in your OP.


NP. You sound like a horrible person.


Hmm, I'm actually quite friendly and well liked. But you're entitled to believe as you wish. Have a super day!


I'm not defending the person who said you sound like a horrible person, but you can be friendly and well liked while simultaneously being a horrible person. Easy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I was in a similar situation, OP. A woman whose kid was on my kid's soccer team was cold to me but warmer to other people. I wondered at times if it was the fact that I'm a single mom - sometimes married moms get nervous about the single chick in their social circle. (I'm not hot or flirty w/ the dads - had never interacted with her husband so figured it wasn't that.)

I never did figure it out, but our kids ended up different soccer teams the next year and I never really had to deal with it again.


This is not my experience. I've never been nervous about other moms, single or married.
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