Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm swim team mom and I dislike (hate is way too strong) you because of how you ask your questions. Your emails imply you think something is wrong or can be taken as complaints, but you offer little of your time to help. You sit on the sidelines with a sour puss because you're offended people don't come to you and ask you to get involved. I understand you feel left out and this is your personality, but it takes way too much effort to baby you along. I wish you'd just be like all the other parents and ask "what can I do to help?". I just feel so drained dealing with you, I'd prefer to keep my distance.
Oh, also, you speak negatively of others a lot. I can't stand gossip, especially of people I know, so I just don't want you in my life. I'm sorry if that hurts your feelings but I'll never exclude your kids because of you.
Oops, I should add, I'm not "really" swim-team mom. I'm another group mom and this is why I have a relationship like you describe in your OP.