My friend cheated on her husband, left him, and is public with AP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you should support your friend. you don't know what abuse she suffered in the marriage. She most likely now feels empowered and is using social media posts to help promote that as an example to other women in her community. As for the kids, if she has a daughter she is showing her daughter how a strong woman takes control of her light. If she has sons then she is illustrating to her sons that they should take better care of their wives.

what the F*CK?????????? you are one seroiously f*cked nut job.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When a woman gets fixated on an AP, she does not care about anything else - not even the safety or psychological well-being of her children - and she easily rationalizes her behavior as right and moral no matter how outrageous it is. If you say anything to her, she's just going to tune you out, and you'll hear a lot of bleating about "I wasn't haaaaaappy" and "he's my soul-mate and I deserve a chance at True Love!"

Yeah, my ex-wife was like this. She stopped grocery shopping and fed our three year old nothing but boxed mac and cheese for a few weeks. She said that since we had joint custody, I could provide the veggies, fruit, and everything else on my nights. Her friends tried talking sense into her about other reckless things she was doing, but it was like talking to a brick wall. Two of them called me concerned and suggested I get our kid out of the house ASAP. When her and the AP broke up, it got even worse.

I don't think there's much the OP can say or do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When a woman gets fixated on an AP, she does not care about anything else - not even the safety or psychological well-being of her children - and she easily rationalizes her behavior as right and moral no matter how outrageous it is. If you say anything to her, she's just going to tune you out, and you'll hear a lot of bleating about "I wasn't haaaaaappy" and "he's my soul-mate and I deserve a chance at True Love!"

Not just women. An older man in my family did the same thing and is now public with the other woman.

A male cousin did this last summer. Actually posted photos of OW with his kids!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When a woman gets fixated on an AP, she does not care about anything else - not even the safety or psychological well-being of her children - and she easily rationalizes her behavior as right and moral no matter how outrageous it is. If you say anything to her, she's just going to tune you out, and you'll hear a lot of bleating about "I wasn't haaaaaappy" and "he's my soul-mate and I deserve a chance at True Love!"

Yeah, my ex-wife was like this. She stopped grocery shopping and fed our three year old nothing but boxed mac and cheese for a few weeks. She said that since we had joint custody, I could provide the veggies, fruit, and everything else on my nights. Her friends tried talking sense into her about other reckless things she was doing, but it was like talking to a brick wall. Two of them called me concerned and suggested I get our kid out of the house ASAP. When her and the AP broke up, it got even worse.

I don't think there's much the OP can say or do.

Actually, that was my first inclination- unless you're very, very close to this woman, at this point, if you're truly concerned about the kids, I'd consider reaching out to the husband to see if you can help him out. Depending on how totally she has jumped ship, he may be navigating almost total single parenthood (from what you said, very suddenly) in addition to the dissolution of his marriage and could likely use some help with the kids, a break from time to time, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You could be talking about me...except for the FB part. What you DON’T know is that we’ve been separated for a year and had serious problems for about 4 years prior to that. MYOB, you don’t know the whole story.

Wait..so you moved out to be with your AP and left your kids with your husband?
What more to the story do we need to know???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you should support your friend. you don't know what abuse she suffered in the marriage. She most likely now feels empowered and is using social media posts to help promote that as an example to other women in her community. As for the kids, if she has a daughter she is showing her daughter how a strong woman takes control of her light. If she has sons then she is illustrating to her sons that they should take better care of their wives.

what the F*CK?????????? you are one seroiously f*cked nut job.

Agree with the "What the F*CK?!?!" poster!

PP...you don't teach your kids (boy or girl children) that a strong woman takes control of her life by LEAVING THEM BEHIND with said "abusive" husband/father. If she were being abused, she should have taken the kids with her! THat is not what OP said happened!

[Anonymous]

"Hey, I have noticed you and your soon to be ex are going through a hard time, from what you posted on FB. I just hope you two do your best to protect your kids from any of the gossip or talk thats going on..I care about them and would hate to see them hurt"

THE END

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You could be talking about me...except for the FB part. What you DON’T know is that we’ve been separated for a year and had serious problems for about 4 years prior to that. MYOB, you don’t know the whole story.

Wait..so you moved out to be with your AP and left your kids with your husband?
What more to the story do we need to know???

I didn't have kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You could be talking about me...except for the FB part. What you DON’T know is that we’ve been separated for a year and had serious problems for about 4 years prior to that. MYOB, you don’t know the whole story.

Wait..so you moved out to be with your AP and left your kids with your husband?
What more to the story do we need to know???

I didn't have kids.

OP here. Then nobody cares. At least I don’t. This is a kid issue...