DW texting AP.

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Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way.

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it.

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for them to go to college?

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free.

So you, your spouses, and your kids happiness are the cost to sustain your lifestyle.

You’ve said you don’t “fake it” from the kids, so my only guess is you don’t hide how unhappy you are.

If it’s worth it to you to brood over an EA, at the cost of impacting everyone around you. Yes he made a bad decisions you are not exactly contributing anything positive to the situation either.

But hey - if a nice handbag and a Lexus are the price for you and your family’s happiness, seems like you and your DH have equal, selfish valued and are made for each other.

FYI - maybe you should make your own thread while you’re at it.

Lexus? No. Try BMW, Porsche, and Cadillac.

Haha, I think I know you! This explains so much. Wow.

You “haha” means you don’t. My kids are in n $$ private schools. People who I know would never “haha”

Oh I definitely know you! I find this hilarious.

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Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way.

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it.

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for them to go to college?

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free.

So you, your spouses, and your kids happiness are the cost to sustain your lifestyle.

You’ve said you don’t “fake it” from the kids, so my only guess is you don’t hide how unhappy you are.

If it’s worth it to you to brood over an EA, at the cost of impacting everyone around you. Yes he made a bad decisions you are not exactly contributing anything positive to the situation either.

But hey - if a nice handbag and a Lexus are the price for you and your family’s happiness, seems like you and your DH have equal, selfish valued and are made for each other.

FYI - maybe you should make your own thread while you’re at it.

Lexus? No. Try BMW, Porsche, and Cadillac.

Haha, I think I know you! This explains so much. Wow.

You “haha” means you don’t. My kids are in n $$ private schools. People who I know would never “haha”

Oh I definitely know you! I find this hilarious.

Okay lets settle this. The next time you see Mrs. BMW, Porsche, and Cadi, go up to her and whisper "I know its you" and report back what her reaction is.

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Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way.

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it.

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for them to go to college?

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free.

I don't see anything wrong with this. Many have financial problems after a divorce, men and women. I planned mine for 5 years, best thing I did. Now remarried for many years. I can't say the same for some of my friends.

As long as you both can get along reasonably well it's still better to have the kids in one household.

You can live now, don't have to wait. Do fun stuff/trips with friends or kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Long term marriage you'll get about half. I'd still put money away he doesn't know about or can't find. I assume you're doing that.

I'd at least be decent for the kids sake, or fake it as much as I could. I wouldn't have sex with him because it's not worth your health. He may still be cheating for all you know.

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Bitches are crazy. You didn't know that?

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Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way.

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it.

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for them to go to college?

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free.

So you, your spouses, and your kids happiness are the cost to sustain your lifestyle.

You’ve said you don’t “fake it” from the kids, so my only guess is you don’t hide how unhappy you are.

If it’s worth it to you to brood over an EA, at the cost of impacting everyone around you. Yes he made a bad decisions you are not exactly contributing anything positive to the situation either.

But hey - if a nice handbag and a Lexus are the price for you and your family’s happiness, seems like you and your DH have equal, selfish valued and are made for each other.

FYI - maybe you should make your own thread while you’re at it.

Lexus? No. Try BMW, Porsche, and Cadillac.

Haha, I think I know you! This explains so much. Wow.

You “haha” means you don’t. My kids are in n $$ private schools. People who I know would never “haha”

Oh I definitely know you! I find this hilarious.

Okay lets settle this. The next time you see Mrs. BMW, Porsche, and Cadi, go up to her and whisper "I know its you" and report back what her reaction is.

This! Just add a “haha”.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way.

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it.

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for them to go to college?

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free.

So you, your spouses, and your kids happiness are the cost to sustain your lifestyle.

You’ve said you don’t “fake it” from the kids, so my only guess is you don’t hide how unhappy you are.

If it’s worth it to you to brood over an EA, at the cost of impacting everyone around you. Yes he made a bad decisions you are not exactly contributing anything positive to the situation either.

But hey - if a nice handbag and a Lexus are the price for you and your family’s happiness, seems like you and your DH have equal, selfish valued and are made for each other.

FYI - maybe you should make your own thread while you’re at it.

Lexus? No. Try BMW, Porsche, and Cadillac.

Haha, I think I know you! This explains so much. Wow.

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Omg!! I know you too!!!!

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Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way.

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it.

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for them to go to college?

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free.

So you, your spouses, and your kids happiness are the cost to sustain your lifestyle.

You’ve said you don’t “fake it” from the kids, so my only guess is you don’t hide how unhappy you are.

If it’s worth it to you to brood over an EA, at the cost of impacting everyone around you. Yes he made a bad decisions you are not exactly contributing anything positive to the situation either.

But hey - if a nice handbag and a Lexus are the price for you and your family’s happiness, seems like you and your DH have equal, selfish valued and are made for each other.

FYI - maybe you should make your own thread while you’re at it.

Lexus? No. Try BMW, Porsche, and Cadillac.

Haha, I think I know you! This explains so much. Wow.

You “haha” means you don’t. My kids are in n $$ private schools. People who I know would never “haha”

Np here, my kids are in $$$$ private schools and I definitely "haha". I also LOL! and even on occasion LOLOLOL. Live a little, might feel good.

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Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way.

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it.

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for them to go to college?

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free.

So you, your spouses, and your kids happiness are the cost to sustain your lifestyle.

You’ve said you don’t “fake it” from the kids, so my only guess is you don’t hide how unhappy you are.

If it’s worth it to you to brood over an EA, at the cost of impacting everyone around you. Yes he made a bad decisions you are not exactly contributing anything positive to the situation either.

But hey - if a nice handbag and a Lexus are the price for you and your family’s happiness, seems like you and your DH have equal, selfish valued and are made for each other.

FYI - maybe you should make your own thread while you’re at it.

Lexus? No. Try BMW, Porsche, and Cadillac.

Haha, I think I know you! This explains so much. Wow.

You “haha” means you don’t. My kids are in n $$ private schools. People who I know would never “haha”

Np here, my kids are in $$$$ private schools and I definitely "haha". I also LOL! and even on occasion LOLOLOL. Live a little, might feel good.

Lololol bahahahahahaha!!! ROFLMAO! ??

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way.

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it.

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for them to go to college?

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free.

So you, your spouses, and your kids happiness are the cost to sustain your lifestyle.

You’ve said you don’t “fake it” from the kids, so my only guess is you don’t hide how unhappy you are.

If it’s worth it to you to brood over an EA, at the cost of impacting everyone around you. Yes he made a bad decisions you are not exactly contributing anything positive to the situation either.

But hey - if a nice handbag and a Lexus are the price for you and your family’s happiness, seems like you and your DH have equal, selfish valued and are made for each other.

FYI - maybe you should make your own thread while you’re at it.

Lexus? No. Try BMW, Porsche, and Cadillac.

Haha, I think I know you! This explains so much. Wow.

You “haha” means you don’t. My kids are in n $$ private schools. People who I know would never “haha”

Np here, my kids are in $$$$ private schools and I definitely "haha". I also LOL! and even on occasion LOLOLOL. Live a little, might feel good.

Lololol bahahahahahaha!!! ROFLMAO! ??

PS my kids are in hella $$$$$$ private school.

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My kids are in $$$$$$$$$$$$xinfinity private school!

You can't beat infinity folks!!!!!!!!

[Anonymous]

I love you infinity + 1. You can always go to 11.

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Anonymous wrote:I love you infinity + 1. You can always go to 11.

You can't do that. Infinity goes on forever! It never stops!

LOL who knew arguments made when you were eleven would come in handy when you're an adult?

[Anonymous]

Hey, Sorry this is going on. I am glad to see that the both of you is trying couples counseling. Have you considered talking to her about staying in before any big decisions are made? I also found some articles that you may want to check out. I will be praying for the both of you.

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