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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free. [/quote]

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way. [/quote]

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding  bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it. [/quote]

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for  them to go to college?[/quote]

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free. [/quote]

I don't see anything wrong with this. Many have financial problems after a divorce, men and women.  I planned mine for 5 years, best thing I did. Now remarried for many years. I can't say the same for some of my friends.

As long as you both can get along reasonably well it's still better to have the kids in one household.

You can live now, don't have to wait. Do fun stuff/trips with friends or kids. [/quote]

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