DW texting AP.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love you infinity + 1. You can always go to 11.

You can't do that. Infinity goes on forever! It never stops!

LOL who knew arguments made when you were eleven would come in handy when you're an adult?

This was spinal tap.

[Anonymous]

No kids? It’s over, pal. Hire the best divorce lawyer you can afford, negotiate the best deal possible, and move forward with your life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No kids? It’s over, pal. Hire the best divorce lawyer you can afford, negotiate the best deal possible, and move forward with your life.

Op here.

I was hoping counseling would fix things, it’s not. She talks about how angry she is the entire time. I’ve been out of the house for 4 days and she hasn’t contacted me once. I didn’t want my marriage to end.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No kids? It’s over, pal. Hire the best divorce lawyer you can afford, negotiate the best deal possible, and move forward with your life.

Op here.

I was hoping counseling would fix things, it’s not. She talks about how angry she is the entire time. I’ve been out of the house for 4 days and she hasn’t contacted me once. I didn’t want my marriage to end.

Sorry, dude. It's over. Look, you are human, you screwed up. Be thankful you don't have kids and learn a lesson from it.

I cheated on a girlfriend, we broke up over it. New wife I have been faithful to, we have a great family. People make mistakes, it's what you do next that counts.

[Anonymous]

That's not a mistake. It's calculated, so stop with the b.s.

I don't know how so many can throw away spouses and kids over a piece of garbage. One that would knowingly cheat with a married person.

There's never a shortage of greedy people. I would say OP you should move on. You pretty much ended it all on your own

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Anonymous wrote:5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free.

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way.

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it.

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for them to go to college?

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free.

So you, your spouses, and your kids happiness are the cost to sustain your lifestyle.

You’ve said you don’t “fake it” from the kids, so my only guess is you don’t hide how unhappy you are.

If it’s worth it to you to brood over an EA, at the cost of impacting everyone around you. Yes he made a bad decisions you are not exactly contributing anything positive to the situation either.

But hey - if a nice handbag and a Lexus are the price for you and your family’s happiness, seems like you and your DH have equal, selfish valued and are made for each other.

FYI - maybe you should make your own thread while you’re at it.

Lexus? No. Try BMW, Porsche, and Cadillac.

Haha, I think I know you! This explains so much. Wow.

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Omg!! I know you too!!!!

I know her too!! And so does a friend of mine who had her right after I did! I'm still available if you want another ride. You know how to find me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No kids? It’s over, pal. Hire the best divorce lawyer you can afford, negotiate the best deal possible, and move forward with your life.

Op here.

I was hoping counseling would fix things, it’s not. She talks about how angry she is the entire time. I’ve been out of the house for 4 days and she hasn’t contacted me once. I didn’t want my marriage to end.

Seriously? You have made your marriage a lie and a mockery for four years, and you think your wife should be over it after two months? You are delusional.

Clearly you are not actually interested in saving your marriage, or you would have (a) answered your wife’s questions honestly, so she wouldn’t be left asking your AO those questions and (b) helping HER by doing the hard work on yourself. You just want to sweep it all under the rug. You are selfish and stupid. Your wife is better off without you.

[Anonymous]

If you didn't want your marriage to end you should not had an affair. I love your wife's style and wish her all the future happiness post-divorce with someone who truly loves her.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps your DW will leave you for her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just imagine how this thread would go if the sexes were reversed...

Ain't that the truth. They'd be caterwauling about what a sleaze the spouse is for spying on OP. How abusive he is and how she should just leave in the middle of the night because who knows what he might be capable of? After all, she only made one little mistake and why in the world would he make such a big deal about it?

[Anonymous]

Hey, OP - go check out the thread about the woman who cannot stand her DH’s post-affair lies. That’s what you’ve been doing to your wife, and acting as if she should just accept it.

You are so, so in the wrong here.