How old were you the first time? Are you still in contact with your "first"?

[Anonymous]

It seems to be that the ones who had sex for the first time at 16 or younger, it was with someone older.

As a parent, I think I will try to keep my teens from being around older teens. It doesn't seem like the kids the same age, the boys the same age as the girls, don't pressure them as much to have sex. Maybe they can't drive yet, or they're not alone as much?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17.
Attacked by a total stranger and brutally raped.
Hope that he is dead.

I am very sorry that happened to you. Were you able to find some peace? Would you consider your first time to be the first time it was by your choice and consensual?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It seems to be that the ones who had sex for the first time at 16 or younger, it was with someone older.

As a parent, I think I will try to keep my teens from being around older teens. It doesn't seem like the kids the same age, the boys the same age as the girls, don't pressure them as much to have sex. Maybe they can't drive yet, or they're not alone as much?

I agree. Everyone of my friends who had sex before 16 had sex with an older teen or younger adult.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It seems to be that the ones who had sex for the first time at 16 or younger, it was with someone older.

As a parent, I think I will try to keep my teens from being around older teens. It doesn't seem like the kids the same age, the boys the same age as the girls, don't pressure them as much to have sex. Maybe they can't drive yet, or they're not alone as much?

LOL no many of my friend were with a kid their same age and same grade. Most of the time it was in the parents home.

[Anonymous]

19. He was 22. Not in contact currently.

[Anonymous]

20 - just a few days shy of my 21st bday. He was 18, almost 19.

10 years later we finally tied the not and just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Age the first time you had sex = 19-years-old
Still in contact with your first = Yes, friends on Facebook.
Are you male or female? = Female

I was 19-years-old. He was my college boyfriend. We had been friends for more than a year before we started dating. We had been dating for more than 6 months. He had a friend who was going to school at Pepperdine. We traveled to Malibu, California to visit his friend. A group of us traveled to San Diego, and the to Tijuana, Mexico for spring break.

When we first got to Malibu, his friend left us alone the whole trip and stayed with his girlfriend.

His friend's place was a pool house he rented in Malibu, that was on the grounds of a larger house. We had candles lit, and it was very romantic to me.

I'm still in touch with him on Facebook. He is now married and has a son. We were very close and good friends, as well as boyfriend and girlfriend. I'm the one who broke up with him, and I know it hurt him. He seems to have forgiven me completely. There's absolutely nothing between us now except we're friends on Facebook and connected on LinkedIn. We don't communicate with each other outside of public posts.

15.. Male, She was a year younger. Facebook friends, our parents know each other and are now friends. She has had a hard life. Sometimes wonder if we did too much before she was mentally ready. It was a learning experience for us both..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17.
Attacked by a total stranger and brutally raped.
Hope that he is dead.

If he’s not dead lets hope he is deep in the bowels of some prison. Hugs to you.

[Anonymous]

We were both 20. Got married a year later. We are still married 20 years later.

[Anonymous]

12, in a consensual F/F relationship that lasted about three years. We are still good friends now at age 50+, talk via chat a few times a week, were in each other's weddings, etc. We are both bi but are in monogamous hetero marriages (where our spouses know our past).

[Anonymous]

Just curious, but when referring to losing yoyr virginity within a F/F relationship. What are you referring to? I know that when talking about losing virginity in a hetero relationship tgat would usually mean PIV intercourse.

Anonymous wrote:12, in a consensual F/F relationship that lasted about three years. We are still good friends now at age 50+, talk via chat a few times a week, were in each other's weddings, etc. We are both bi but are in monogamous hetero marriages (where our spouses know our past).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:18 (guy), and she was either 17 or 18. In my Dad's car listening to the Thriller album after taking her to a Chuck Norris movie (call me Mr. Romantic). Our one and only date. No contact.

I'd have loved mine to be to thriller. It makes for some pretty funny memories

Well, the album certainly aged better than Chuck Norris!

[Anonymous]

Guy. 16. She was probably late 15-ish, and I was her 2nd. She pushed me into it, but was gorgeous, and it was pretty amazing. We dated for about a year. All my friends were incredibly jealous.

She eventually broke up with me, said it wasn’t my fault, but something horrible had happened and she couldn’t date anyone for a while.

It turns out her father had been sexually abusing her and her older sister for years. I never liked the guy, and he never liked me, but I just figured it was because I was sleeping with his daughter. It’s creepy now realizing it was a lot more than that.

Anyway, she and her sister finally told the mother and the authorities, and he went to prison. I discovered this months later when she tried to get me back. Unfortunately, I had moved on and was dating someone else. We had little to no contact because she lived in another city 90 minutes away.

My sister saw her a few times but I have had no contact, including Facebook, for 20 years.