How old were you the first time? Are you still in contact with your "first"?

[Anonymous]

24, yes, we're married.

[Anonymous]

I was 17. He was 38.
I thought I was in love but I was groomed.
And even though I know that now, I still have a hard time being mad at him. I was very hurt when he ended it. He was afraid of being caught and said it was "wrong" that we were together. No contact now.

[Anonymous]

16, no contact

[Anonymous]

19
No
Male

I tried to wait until I got married due to my religion. My hormones won that battle. We were just friends. She knew I was a virgin and seemed intrigued by the idea of being a guy's first. She presented it as a chance to learn some things so that I wouldn't suck at it when I finally met my future wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:18 (guy), and she was either 17 or 18. In my Dad's car listening to the Thriller album after taking her to a Chuck Norris movie (call me Mr. Romantic). Our one and only date. No contact.

I'd have loved mine to be to thriller. It makes for some pretty funny memories

[Anonymous]

Not since our kid graduated college.

[Anonymous]

17.
Attacked by a total stranger and brutally raped.
Hope that he is dead.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17.
Attacked by a total stranger and brutally raped.
Hope that he is dead.

I’m truly sorry this happened to you.

[Anonymous]

18
Male
She was also 18. We met at a St. Patrick’s Day party on campus. Four months later we were each other’s first.
Dated for 4 or 5 years but ultimately broke up.
Fast forward about 35 years, she’s a widow and I was divorced. We began dating again and have been together now for 7 years.
I guess it was meant to be.

[Anonymous]

14. Still in contact, we are friends on Facebook and our parents are very good friends so we see each other occasionally. Went to his wedding 15 years ago. I am female.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm DW's first.
She was like 250th

A lot of hookers, right?

[Anonymous]

I was 15. It was actually the day after my birthday. It was to a guy I had been hanging out with most of the summer and had been trying desperately to give him my virginity for 2 months. He was 18 at the time and kept turning me down because I was too young. When I turned 15 I told him that if he wasnt going to do it I would find someone who would.

He was a real gentleman about it and we spent the day together and I was going crazy wondering if it was going to happen or not. That night we stayed together in his parents RV in their back yard and he finally took my virginity.

We hung out for the rest of the summer, but in September he left for school. He added me to facebook a couple years ago and chat on messenger every once in a while.

[Anonymous]

26 on my honeymoon, still married.

[Anonymous]

I was 15, she was 14. We're Facebook friends and we hooked up at our 20th reunion.

[Anonymous]

I'm female. I was 15, he was 19. We were FWB's before that was a thing -- went out/had sex that summer, and then other summers and school breaks when we were both around for the next 5 years or so. Never exclusive. Despite the age disparity he was (and is!) a good guy, and I have no regrets. He was a pretty hard core nerd, which might explain why he was interested in someone younger, but definitely in a Revenge of the Nerds kind of way. In touch via FB but haven't seen him in person in more than 25 years.