How old were you the first time? Are you still in contact with your "first"?

[Anonymous]

16. No.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:16. Yes. Female, 45. He’s an amazing friend. I’m so glad it was him. I had a positive, loving first time with a gentle man. We dated for years and I went to his wedding a few decades later. No awkwardness.

(We were both 16)

I got incredibly lucky. So many young girls are preyed upon. Many friends had experiences similar to other posters.

[Anonymous]

So, I'm a crazy outlier.

33
We stayed in touch for several years in a limited way. I haven't heard from him since he reached out about 5 years ago in what I presume was a hoped for booty call as his marriage had just ended. Never heard from him again once he heard I'm married with kids.

[Anonymous]

16 M
Couldn't even tell you her name. I was on a trip. We hooked up a couple of times. She was giving me a HJ and pulled me on top of her by my manhood and put me inside. Saw her once more after. Never exchanged info.

[Anonymous]

15 F
Nope - ONS on vacation

[Anonymous]

Why is this something you're thinking in depth about OP?

[Anonymous]

I was 14. He was very sweet, although we were too young. We were Facebook friends, although he just died of cancer, which was very sad to see. The video his parents made for his funeral had a shot of the two of us going to a dance.

[Anonymous]

19.
No

[Anonymous]

17 M, she was 14.

Vacation hookup. No contact for 30 years. Now, we talk through social media.

[Anonymous]

19 M (late bloomer) and yes. We are friends on facebook, she calls me occasionally about professional issues. We dated a couple years. I like her but no feelings.

[Anonymous]

20 male - I spent a summer traveling through Europe on about $25/day. I met a Danish girl on a train leaving Copenhagen and we spent two nights together in Munich and then we went our separate ways. I should have gone to Austria with her and I've had no contact with her since. She was very nice.

[Anonymous]

29
Still in contact, we are married.
Female

[Anonymous]

18 (guy), and she was either 17 or 18. In my Dad's car listening to the Thriller album after taking her to a Chuck Norris movie (call me Mr. Romantic). Our one and only date. No contact.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I (male) was a 14 year old high school freshman growing up in the 1970s in a beach town. The house next door was a group rental of women in their early 20s. One night I ended up there at a party. A very overweight and unattractive woman in her 20s invited me to smoke a joint in her car. After smoking the joint she got very handsy with me. She then led me to the back yard and took my virginity.

No, we do not keep in touch.

I’m sorry. Has the Statute of Limitations passed?

[Anonymous]

15-- against my consent -- definitely not in contact with him

18 -- first consensual sex-- occasional contact