Wife is jealous over a conversation I had

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP,I’m not
Your wife, but I don’t even believe your story.

You didn’t sleep well the night before, wondering how to spin it that you were leaving work early.

And of course, the day that you just happened to not sleep and happened to leave work early, there just happened to be a young woman in a Tshirt emblazoned with the fact that she happens to work in the same branch of science as you do. Oh and wait, also the same branch as your daughter. And of course you happened to have 1/2 hour of free time to chat with her.

How fruitious. Maybe you should buy a lottery ticket, with all the coincidence following you.

Oh my god, you're nuts.

Op, you're fine. These people, including your wife's friend, are crazy.

[Anonymous]

Actually, the fact that your conversation didn't look so innocent to a third party who knows you and your wife is telling. Blame yourself, not your wife or her friend. IMO you're way too invested in this random situation. You upset/embarrassed your wife, genuinely apologize and get yourself together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one else is blown alway by the fact that his wife doesn’t know his plumbing doesn’t work. Wtf dude.

+1

Thank you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP,I’m not
Your wife, but I don’t even believe your story.

You didn’t sleep well the night before, wondering how to spin it that you were leaving work early.

And of course, the day that you just happened to not sleep and happened to leave work early, there just happened to be a young woman in a Tshirt emblazoned with the fact that she happens to work in the same branch of science as you do. Oh and wait, also the same branch as your daughter. And of course you happened to have 1/2 hour of free time to chat with her.

How fruitious. Maybe you should buy a lottery ticket, with all the coincidence following you.

Oh my god, you're nuts.

Op, you're fine. These people, including your wife's friend, are crazy.

+1,000. This. OP, for outgoing people it is easy to have conversations in random places. But seriously, man, get it together with your d*ck, and start wooing your wife for real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What a total waste of 30+ mins when you're tired.

Exactly.

I disagree. It probably energized him.

[Anonymous]

Your wife’s friend was messy. Your wife is messy. You were fine.

[Anonymous]

I have these convos all the time and I don't even work. I'm married, not dead, and DH knows it. Yes, I'll flirt. Yes, I'll have talks with people I find interesting. I enjoy attention from the opposite sex but it never goes further than talk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Actually, the fact that your conversation didn't look so innocent to a third party who knows you and your wife is telling. Blame yourself, not your wife or her friend. IMO you're way too invested in this random situation. You upset/embarrassed your wife, genuinely apologize and get yourself together.

This is ridiculous! If you have a husband, God help him.

[Anonymous]

Maybe. I go with whatever I feel in the moment. That is the kind of life I want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have these convos all the time and I don't even work. I'm married, not dead, and DH knows it. Yes, I'll flirt. Yes, I'll have talks with people I find interesting. I enjoy attention from the opposite sex but it never goes further than talk.

+1 I don't avoid having a conversation with someone because they are a male unless of course it's VP Pence! And when I have a conversation with a male I don't de-neuter myself to throw up a wall of safety. I don't intentionally flirt but I'm always friendly.

[Anonymous]

Bit*hes be cray, cray. I am decent looking, slim, middle aged married woman. I talk to random men! Because I don't live in Saudi Arabia! So many women(and men) confuse love with codependency, it is an ugly trait to have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Actually, the fact that your conversation didn't look so innocent to a third party who knows you and your wife is telling. Blame yourself, not your wife or her friend. IMO you're way too invested in this random situation. You upset/embarrassed your wife, genuinely apologize and get yourself together.

This is ridiculous! If you have a husband, God help him.

Only busy bodies like you would think about anything like that. Being a busy body is being nasty. Like 100 years ago when grandmas set on the porch or bench in front of houses, yards and saw a girl from the same village/town walk down the street towards her house with a boy!! Then she got home and a bit later got a beating, because she was a whore! And she was just walking the same way home as the same village boy who goes to the same village school and went to the same store to buy dad cigarettes! And here you are, 100 years later still doing the same exact crap to your own effing gender.

[Anonymous]

What a silly situation and we can’t comment because we were not there. Maybe you or her were a little too touchy feely and the friend saw that? Maybe she saw that the girl was really into you and you were too dumb to notice and back away? Agree with others, fix youR sex life

[Anonymous]

Ha, I think your wife posted a thread how she is no longer attracted to you! 260lbs! You weigh more than most NFL pros and are not super tall. And you are not initiating clearly, so given this info she might be right to be suspicious. If I wasn't having sex with my DH for over a year, my first thought wouldn't be ED, but he is cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP,I’m not
Your wife, but I don’t even believe your story.

You didn’t sleep well the night before, wondering how to spin it that you were leaving work early.

And of course, the day that you just happened to not sleep and happened to leave work early, there just happened to be a young woman in a Tshirt emblazoned with the fact that she happens to work in the same branch of science as you do. Oh and wait, also the same branch as your daughter. And of course you happened to have 1/2 hour of free time to chat with her.

How fruitious. Maybe you should buy a lottery ticket, with all the coincidence following you.

Oh my god, you're nuts.

Op, you're fine. These people, including your wife's friend, are crazy.

NP here, and I have to agree with PP. OP, you didn't do anything wrong. Your wife's friend sounds like a troublemaker. As for your wife, you might want to consider thinking through why she has allowed her friend's troublemaking behavior to agitate her so much.