Host informs parents "don't bring your monsters"

[Anonymous]

I would've assumed that a 21st birthday party meant no kids.

[Anonymous]

I have heard parents refer to their own kids as little monsters. Perhaps the cousin was trying to be funny while making a point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stay out of it. None of your business, at all. Yes, it was very rude, but it is not your job to teach this grown man how to behave.

Your only job is to reply to the invitation in a timely manner. In or out? Decide, then keep it moving.

This.

[Anonymous]

OP, you seem really bent out of shape over something that has nothing to do with you given that you supposedly weren’t planning to bring your kids. What’s up with that?

[Anonymous]

He should just have his party at a strip club.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In no world is it your place to ask him to remove anything from his invitation- surely you're joking?
Hopefully you aren't clutching your pearls over the "monsters" reference. If so let me warn you that other terms you may hear to describe children are crumb snatchers and rug rats. It's all tongue in cheek.

Also: "mistakes," "accidents," "little shit factories," "why doesn't this look anything like daddy?". Etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He should just have his party at a strip club.

Lmao. There probably still would have been someone asking if babysitting would be provided.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In no world is it your place to ask him to remove anything from his invitation- surely you're joking?
Hopefully you aren't clutching your pearls over the "monsters" reference. If so let me warn you that other terms you may hear to describe children are crumb snatchers and rug rats. It's all tongue in cheek.

Also: "mistakes," "accidents," "little shit factories," "why doesn't this look anything like daddy?". Etc.

Crotch fruit. Don’t forget crotch fruit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In no world is it your place to ask him to remove anything from his invitation- surely you're joking?
Hopefully you aren't clutching your pearls over the "monsters" reference. If so let me warn you that other terms you may hear to describe children are crumb snatchers and rug rats. It's all tongue in cheek.

Also: "mistakes," "accidents," "little shit factories," "why doesn't this look anything like daddy?". Etc.

Crotch fruit. Don’t forget crotch fruit.

F*ck trophies

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He should just have his party at a strip club.

Lmao. There probably still would have been someone asking if babysitting would be provided.

+1

Imbeciles.

[Anonymous]

The requests for babysitters were probably equally rude but clearly he used poor judgement by sending his blunt note to everyone. Personally I would decline because he sounds like someone who will throw a crappy party with little thought to what would be enjoyable for the guests. In other words, he sounds like he's 20.

[Anonymous]

I am the OP. So against the advice of everyone I messaged both hosts and told them I felt the post was causing unnecessary drama. The author of said post told me to mind my own god damn business. He said I had no say in the matter because I was not paying for anything. The second host told me she understood my concerns and would have worded it differently but she supports his decision. She said some of the family was getting really pushy and needed to be put in check. I said my peace and will leave it at that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am the OP. So against the advice of everyone I messaged both hosts and told them I felt the post was causing unnecessary drama. The author of said post told me to mind my own god damn business. He said I had no say in the matter because I was not paying for anything. The second host told me she understood my concerns and would have worded it differently but she supports his decision. She said some of the family was getting really pushy and needed to be put in check. I said my peace and will leave it at that.

OBVIOUSLY she supports his decision. Otherwise she would have taken it down immediately when she saw it.

It's so funny that you tried to create drama under the guise of reducing drama. How did you seriously think it would have turned out if one host had taken that down when the other clearly felt that strongly about it? And it wouldn't have solved anything anyway since the entire guest list presumably already saw the message and knows how they really feel about it.

At least you were put in your place now. Hopefully you learned something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am the OP. So against the advice of everyone I messaged both hosts and told them I felt the post was causing unnecessary drama. The author of said post told me to mind my own god damn business. He said I had no say in the matter because I was not paying for anything. The second host told me she understood my concerns and would have worded it differently but she supports his decision. She said some of the family was getting really pushy and needed to be put in check. I said my peace and will leave it at that.

Ugh, you are that person. Have fun at the party?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am the OP. So against the advice of everyone I messaged both hosts and told them I felt the post was causing unnecessary drama. The author of said post told me to mind my own god damn business. He said I had no say in the matter because I was not paying for anything. The second host told me she understood my concerns and would have worded it differently but she supports his decision. She said some of the family was getting really pushy and needed to be put in check. I said my peace and will leave it at that.

OBVIOUSLY she supports his decision. Otherwise she would have taken it down immediately when she saw it.

It's so funny that you tried to create drama under the guise of reducing drama. How did you seriously think it would have turned out if one host had taken that down when the other clearly felt that strongly about it? And it wouldn't have solved anything anyway since the entire guest list presumably already saw the message and knows how they really feel about it.

At least you were put in your place now. Hopefully you learned something.

Completely agree.